I'm being told by a friend that i need to be less outgoing and rowdy. She says that she enjoys me better when i'm mysterious and less %26quot;loud%26quot; what is the best way to act to draw the lovely ladies in? im not bad looking but i tent to be slightly loud in a public setting (football games, dances, school in general)
Advice?
Please no %26quot;just act yourself, you cant help change your personality%26quot; type answers. thanks!
How to act around teenage girls?
It all depends on the type of guy the girl likes. Some girls like outgoing types others like the more quiet types. You can't change your personality completely and act the way a girl wants you to act.
For me I like guys who are mysterious and outgoing. Yet, at the same time is caring, kind, and funny. All girls have different ideas of the %26quot;perfect%26quot; guy.
Being rowdy can be a negative for mostly all girls. As the other answerer said, be mature. Girls like that.
How to act around teenage girls?
show them ur big penises every girl in hs and middle school are total slutz
Yea, if your rowdy.. i imagine how that could be annoying,
you should act more mature.. then girls may be more likely to approach you.
i don't like when guys are loud either =/
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I personally go after the loud outgoing type. everyone has a different type, maybe she just likes the quiet mysterious type. haha sorry to use the word %26quot;type%26quot; so much x]
It's okay to be loud sometimes, it's your personality. But don't overdo it, that's when it gets annoying. Let someone else have the spotlight sometimes. Be nice and smile to the ladies, complement them every now and then 1 or 2 times a week.
just think about life(in general), then you start to day dreaming at school events then girls will wonder what u r thinking and fall for you. Or think about random unimportant stuff then your mind will wander...
some girls like loud and rowdy. im one of those girls.
but if your a little bit more quiet and are more mysterious more girls will be attracted to youu.
trust me on this one.
i have a guy like you and then a mysterious type guy in one of my classes and i find all the girls looking at the mystery guy more often just cause he seems so......i cant even think of a word.
hbahaha
hope i helped
=]
Tbh, you should be quiet at relivent times, like if u r in school, at the cinema etc. but when your out and about, you can be as loud as you like.
dont act a certain way to make girls like you, just act like you would at any time tbh, im not meaning act yourself, just dont fake who u are...
Different girls like different types of boys :)
Hope i help :)
i think i'd agree with your friend, but don't be too quiet, make sure you still have a laugh too. but don't totally change yourself just to please others.
Wednesday 26 October 2011
My b/f is mad at me because I dont stick up for myself and is tired of my complainig how people treat me.?
Now he is in a bad mood and doesnt feel like speaking with me. This has been a problem in the past and I am trying to work on my actions, but we all know that it is hard to change your personality and I really am slowly getting better. How do I get him to start talking to me again?
My b/f is mad at me because I dont stick up for myself and is tired of my complainig how people treat me.?
Raise your self esteem .. take a risk .. stick up for yourself and stop complaining .. complaining hardly ever changes anything .. it just causes more headaches for the person that's listening to you
My b/f is mad at me because I dont stick up for myself and is tired of my complainig how people treat me.?
Raise your self esteem .. take a risk .. stick up for yourself and stop complaining .. complaining hardly ever changes anything .. it just causes more headaches for the person that's listening to you
How many people here think Lady Gaga is a pretentious con artist?
Just curious because I find it odd that earlier videos of her make her seem like a blonde pop star bimbo from a rich New York family but newer ones show an arrogant so called self proclaimed performing artist.
Here's what I mean:
Old interviews:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0k7e3dLcCVU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWF3GhS_WQA
New interviews:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZxHTtNWdAns%26amp;feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xlAOx9op_M
Oh and don't give me crap about how she has grown as an artist because you don't change your personality that quick in one year. Fame has and will always show that she is an arrogant *****.
Furthermore,what's her point of constantly name dropping respected and well known artist especially ones from the 70s ans 80s to seem culturally relevant and edgy. She is no different from any hipster in Williamsburg.
Also, no responses that kiss her sorry *** and make her seem like some premier artist or saint.
How many people here think Lady Gaga is a pretentious con artist?
It's not a big step from blonde pop star bimbo from a rich New York family to arrogant self proclaimed (you can't be so called self proclaimed actually unless you're suggesting she isn't self proclaimed) performing artist.
That aside... IT'S POP MUSIC! It's not going to put a stamp on cultural history, the whole thing about pop culture is exactly that it lacks culture and only lasts until people get tired of you. I don't care how she acts and you should really set interviews aside from her music. Unless you are the type of person who lets an artist's personal life and attitude influence whether or not you like the music they make. Because I sure don't, or I wouldn't have been a fan of U2 ages ago. Not to mention the Who.
So let it go, I don't give a **** what this woman is like and I doubt that a lot of people do. So why do you?
How many people here think Lady Gaga is a pretentious con artist?
Dude, I don't like her either--but %26quot;pop star%26quot; and %26quot;con artist%26quot; are pretty much synonymous these days, which is why popular music has gone down the drain. People will change their image or try to be as %26quot;edgy%26quot; or %26quot;controversial%26quot; or whatever it takes to get more more more attention and sell more more more albums. Lady Gaga is particularly annoying because some people are stupid enough to actually believe her short-bus %26quot;fashion%26quot; (pure crap, although I can imagine her abs must be in great shape from she and all of her handlers laughing their a**es off about their %26quot;artistic statement%26quot; of the day) and pretentious interviews are genuine expression and not highly manufactured and deliberate media manipulation. Like you said, any glimpse of her past shows that %26quot;oops, my singer-songwriter schtick didn't work, and neither did my original nose, so I guess I'll get some plastic surgery, go blonde, and try being edgy to see if that gets me more attention!%26quot; Marilyn Manson did all the same kind of spectacle and nonsense a few years ago, the only difference being he is actually a pretty smart dude and acknowledges that the persona is a media act, whereas Gaga keeps the verbal diarrhea flowing like she's actually soooo deeeeeep. Gag-gag.
But, let's face it. Anyone with a fourth-grade understanding of culture knows she is not an artist, rather a con artist, but she is not alone. Britney played a naughty school girl, and when the sexy teen novelty wore off, she put on a nude bodysuit and a boa, and then made out with Madonna, etc. etc. Katy Perry tried for years and years to release an album as a songwriter and then decided to come up with that turd %26quot;I Kissed a Girl%26quot; hoping that the pseudo-lesbianism and controversy would get her a career, and it worked. All 3 of them can sing as good as any American Idol, fine, but the collective musical talent pool there is a fat zero. But fame-w**ring? A + + +. At least for the next 15 minutes.1 web hosting take advice fron me
Here's what I mean:
Old interviews:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0k7e3dLcCVU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWF3GhS_WQA
New interviews:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZxHTtNWdAns%26amp;feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xlAOx9op_M
Oh and don't give me crap about how she has grown as an artist because you don't change your personality that quick in one year. Fame has and will always show that she is an arrogant *****.
Furthermore,what's her point of constantly name dropping respected and well known artist especially ones from the 70s ans 80s to seem culturally relevant and edgy. She is no different from any hipster in Williamsburg.
Also, no responses that kiss her sorry *** and make her seem like some premier artist or saint.
How many people here think Lady Gaga is a pretentious con artist?
It's not a big step from blonde pop star bimbo from a rich New York family to arrogant self proclaimed (you can't be so called self proclaimed actually unless you're suggesting she isn't self proclaimed) performing artist.
That aside... IT'S POP MUSIC! It's not going to put a stamp on cultural history, the whole thing about pop culture is exactly that it lacks culture and only lasts until people get tired of you. I don't care how she acts and you should really set interviews aside from her music. Unless you are the type of person who lets an artist's personal life and attitude influence whether or not you like the music they make. Because I sure don't, or I wouldn't have been a fan of U2 ages ago. Not to mention the Who.
So let it go, I don't give a **** what this woman is like and I doubt that a lot of people do. So why do you?
How many people here think Lady Gaga is a pretentious con artist?
Dude, I don't like her either--but %26quot;pop star%26quot; and %26quot;con artist%26quot; are pretty much synonymous these days, which is why popular music has gone down the drain. People will change their image or try to be as %26quot;edgy%26quot; or %26quot;controversial%26quot; or whatever it takes to get more more more attention and sell more more more albums. Lady Gaga is particularly annoying because some people are stupid enough to actually believe her short-bus %26quot;fashion%26quot; (pure crap, although I can imagine her abs must be in great shape from she and all of her handlers laughing their a**es off about their %26quot;artistic statement%26quot; of the day) and pretentious interviews are genuine expression and not highly manufactured and deliberate media manipulation. Like you said, any glimpse of her past shows that %26quot;oops, my singer-songwriter schtick didn't work, and neither did my original nose, so I guess I'll get some plastic surgery, go blonde, and try being edgy to see if that gets me more attention!%26quot; Marilyn Manson did all the same kind of spectacle and nonsense a few years ago, the only difference being he is actually a pretty smart dude and acknowledges that the persona is a media act, whereas Gaga keeps the verbal diarrhea flowing like she's actually soooo deeeeeep. Gag-gag.
But, let's face it. Anyone with a fourth-grade understanding of culture knows she is not an artist, rather a con artist, but she is not alone. Britney played a naughty school girl, and when the sexy teen novelty wore off, she put on a nude bodysuit and a boa, and then made out with Madonna, etc. etc. Katy Perry tried for years and years to release an album as a songwriter and then decided to come up with that turd %26quot;I Kissed a Girl%26quot; hoping that the pseudo-lesbianism and controversy would get her a career, and it worked. All 3 of them can sing as good as any American Idol, fine, but the collective musical talent pool there is a fat zero. But fame-w**ring? A + + +. At least for the next 15 minutes.
I'm 16 i'm under-confident!! :(?
hi i'm 16 (male).
is there anything i can do to make myself feel a bit more confident? it's been getting me a bit down lately because i keep feeling a bit smaller than everyone else.
at college, we do a thing where we've gotta show our work to the group and talk about it. after a few seconds of myself talking about it, i feel my face go hot and i know i'm turning red with embarrassment. i hate it. i think if i never went red it'd be a lot better.
also, at college, we had to have tutor interviews (like when they tell you how everythings going and ask questions about the future...), after she said i was doing well and i felt happy and a bit more confident, she said to me %26quot;one more thing, do you think there's any way you can be a bit more err louder and join in more?%26quot;. i felt really bad then and i just said to her %26quot;i'd like to be%26quot;. I don't know why she said that because how are you meant to change your personality overnight? I don't in anyway want to try and be someone I'm not. Yep, i'd like to be a bit louder, but I can't.
I do talk to quite a few people at college, but it's usually whenever they've spoke to me first. I can be funny and I don't really consider myself to be a horrible person.
in the future, i'd absolutely love to be a newscaster (news reader). I know you need a lot of experience, but that's where i'd love to see myself in the future. but, i know i won't make it that high because i am under-confident.
but, will i always be like this? because I really don't want to be! :(
cheers in advance.
also... sorry the question is a bit like an essay, and i didn't know what category to put it in... so it's mens health lol.
I'm 16 i'm under-confident!! :(?
hello,
you seem to want to mingle more with peers around you and be a good public speaker...i'll give you some advice... hopefully it will help
firstly, you should be %26quot;out there%26quot;.. so don't stand back and watch... give it a go even though you're not great at it... so if there's any group activity, you should try suggesting things and if teacher asks the class anything, put you hand up :D
secondly, i did debating and this dramatically,,, let me repeat... DRAMATICALLY!!! improved my public speaking... when you first start it though it can get a bit freaky cuz you are pressured to do well but after a while, you'll become ownage at it and also, joining debating and othe co curricular activities will help you form stronger friendship among the people attending the one that you are doing.
Thirdly, dont talk softly or act shy... cuz people will think something is wrong with you... you should talk with a strong voice and confidently... then people will understand you clearly and won't think you have some issues
and the best advice is to smile... smiling can lift up the way a person judges you so yea.. dont have an emo look or anything, just be cool, calm and happy :D
hopefully this helped cuz im 16 as well and i have over 200 friends on msn and stuff so im very out there :) well, good luck!
I'm 16 i'm under-confident!! :(?
what can i say man u just have to believe in yourself and be more confident , stop worrying about what other people think about you just do what you want............hahah im 16 too
Remember, confidence comes with self knowledge. Knowledge about yourself is one key to the puzzle. The more you know about yourself the more confident you will be around others. Put yourself in positions that you normally wouldn't get into. This will allow you to learn. Realizing that you are under-confident and shy in certain circumstances may mean you are not prepared.
Most of the time we are way too critical about ourselves. Remember to say %26quot;fuc it%26quot; sometimes, don't worry so much, and when it comes down to it we are shy because of other people. Take a close look at those people around you. They are not perfect either. If they expect you to be then they probably need another kick to the face. Help them out.
is there anything i can do to make myself feel a bit more confident? it's been getting me a bit down lately because i keep feeling a bit smaller than everyone else.
at college, we do a thing where we've gotta show our work to the group and talk about it. after a few seconds of myself talking about it, i feel my face go hot and i know i'm turning red with embarrassment. i hate it. i think if i never went red it'd be a lot better.
also, at college, we had to have tutor interviews (like when they tell you how everythings going and ask questions about the future...), after she said i was doing well and i felt happy and a bit more confident, she said to me %26quot;one more thing, do you think there's any way you can be a bit more err louder and join in more?%26quot;. i felt really bad then and i just said to her %26quot;i'd like to be%26quot;. I don't know why she said that because how are you meant to change your personality overnight? I don't in anyway want to try and be someone I'm not. Yep, i'd like to be a bit louder, but I can't.
I do talk to quite a few people at college, but it's usually whenever they've spoke to me first. I can be funny and I don't really consider myself to be a horrible person.
in the future, i'd absolutely love to be a newscaster (news reader). I know you need a lot of experience, but that's where i'd love to see myself in the future. but, i know i won't make it that high because i am under-confident.
but, will i always be like this? because I really don't want to be! :(
cheers in advance.
also... sorry the question is a bit like an essay, and i didn't know what category to put it in... so it's mens health lol.
I'm 16 i'm under-confident!! :(?
hello,
you seem to want to mingle more with peers around you and be a good public speaker...i'll give you some advice... hopefully it will help
firstly, you should be %26quot;out there%26quot;.. so don't stand back and watch... give it a go even though you're not great at it... so if there's any group activity, you should try suggesting things and if teacher asks the class anything, put you hand up :D
secondly, i did debating and this dramatically,,, let me repeat... DRAMATICALLY!!! improved my public speaking... when you first start it though it can get a bit freaky cuz you are pressured to do well but after a while, you'll become ownage at it and also, joining debating and othe co curricular activities will help you form stronger friendship among the people attending the one that you are doing.
Thirdly, dont talk softly or act shy... cuz people will think something is wrong with you... you should talk with a strong voice and confidently... then people will understand you clearly and won't think you have some issues
and the best advice is to smile... smiling can lift up the way a person judges you so yea.. dont have an emo look or anything, just be cool, calm and happy :D
hopefully this helped cuz im 16 as well and i have over 200 friends on msn and stuff so im very out there :) well, good luck!
I'm 16 i'm under-confident!! :(?
what can i say man u just have to believe in yourself and be more confident , stop worrying about what other people think about you just do what you want............hahah im 16 too
Remember, confidence comes with self knowledge. Knowledge about yourself is one key to the puzzle. The more you know about yourself the more confident you will be around others. Put yourself in positions that you normally wouldn't get into. This will allow you to learn. Realizing that you are under-confident and shy in certain circumstances may mean you are not prepared.
Most of the time we are way too critical about ourselves. Remember to say %26quot;fuc it%26quot; sometimes, don't worry so much, and when it comes down to it we are shy because of other people. Take a close look at those people around you. They are not perfect either. If they expect you to be then they probably need another kick to the face. Help them out.
United States Military Academy? I'll gives stars to ppl w/ good answers.?
Answer this good and I'll give you stars and all those other points.
What kind of uniform do you wear?
When do you wear those gray uniforms?
What are the exact hair length requirements?
Do you have bathroom privacy?
Do you have any privacy?
Does everyone have to play a sport?
Physical requirements, how to be prepared?
How do you study late at night?
Do they go through your things when you get there?
Is it possible to sneak in personal things?
Will going there change your personality, for better or worse?
How are there science programs?
What are my options about medical school?
What do I do after I graduate?
What jobs are there related to the health field?
How is the education compared to Ivy leagues?
Exactly how much money will I have when service is up?
How much of my graduate college will they pay for?
United States Military Academy? I'll gives stars to ppl w/ good answers.?
You will get more replies if you ask each question one by one.
What kind of uniform do you wear?
When do you wear those gray uniforms?
What are the exact hair length requirements?
Do you have bathroom privacy?
Do you have any privacy?
Does everyone have to play a sport?
Physical requirements, how to be prepared?
How do you study late at night?
Do they go through your things when you get there?
Is it possible to sneak in personal things?
Will going there change your personality, for better or worse?
How are there science programs?
What are my options about medical school?
What do I do after I graduate?
What jobs are there related to the health field?
How is the education compared to Ivy leagues?
Exactly how much money will I have when service is up?
How much of my graduate college will they pay for?
United States Military Academy? I'll gives stars to ppl w/ good answers.?
You will get more replies if you ask each question one by one.
Can someone advice me?
when you fall in love with someone and you really dont know what you want from that.....you just and only care for that person and want to be with him in what ever way and whatever form.....you do all things possible to attract him towards you you just get hooked to him and dont know where it trails.........on his one word one suggestion one comment you change your personality completely as he said......when all you do is not going right and you see he is not on your side........when you know he does not want you and he just does not care but still you keep doing crazy things dont know what you want from there.........you get stubbornly hooked and he goes away in woods.........you feel empty without him and do all the things to attract him you just cannot cannot get over him.........
.why am i acting so helpless so needy so despirate so stubborn I was a very cheerful happy go lucky girl sometime......but now i feel lonely friendless and so low and cheap and with no will no self esteem.........what is it in him that makes me so much want him..........why cannot i throw this feeling when i know he is just in love with me........why do i still have faith and belief and this stubborn strong feelings in my trueness of love.........whom am i proving this why am i doing this
i lie to everyone do all the nasty baseless cheap things for him.......but i just just cannot lie to him........and he does not even care or desire and he just does not value that. why how what who.......should i talk to how can i break this chain and this loop......
i honestly feel deeply for him........and i know i can live without he being physically there for me.........then why am i torturing myself with this cyclic contiuous pain..of being hurt by his uncaring emotional game.........and i really really love him but in vein
Can someone advice me?
Congratulations, you are in whats known as %26quot;Puppy Love%26quot; or %26quot;Infatuation%26quot;. You'll get over it given time, might be 3 hours, might be 3 months, but you WILL get over it.
You'll discover that you're in REAL love when you wake up one day, think %26quot;How in the heck did I get here with this guy? But he's not so bad...%26quot; when you reach this point, then you'll know you're in love.
Can someone advice me?
You have to talk to this guy that your in love with and tell him about everything you have just said right now.
And tell him your sick off his games and if he feels the same way and then just go home and go in your room with a tub of ice cream waiting for him to call or msg but you can't call or msg but if you then your showing him that you are weak and that he can keep playing those games so wait and if he does not msg or call you leave him because that means HE'S INTO YOU.
.why am i acting so helpless so needy so despirate so stubborn I was a very cheerful happy go lucky girl sometime......but now i feel lonely friendless and so low and cheap and with no will no self esteem.........what is it in him that makes me so much want him..........why cannot i throw this feeling when i know he is just in love with me........why do i still have faith and belief and this stubborn strong feelings in my trueness of love.........whom am i proving this why am i doing this
i lie to everyone do all the nasty baseless cheap things for him.......but i just just cannot lie to him........and he does not even care or desire and he just does not value that. why how what who.......should i talk to how can i break this chain and this loop......
i honestly feel deeply for him........and i know i can live without he being physically there for me.........then why am i torturing myself with this cyclic contiuous pain..of being hurt by his uncaring emotional game.........and i really really love him but in vein
Can someone advice me?
Congratulations, you are in whats known as %26quot;Puppy Love%26quot; or %26quot;Infatuation%26quot;. You'll get over it given time, might be 3 hours, might be 3 months, but you WILL get over it.
You'll discover that you're in REAL love when you wake up one day, think %26quot;How in the heck did I get here with this guy? But he's not so bad...%26quot; when you reach this point, then you'll know you're in love.
Can someone advice me?
You have to talk to this guy that your in love with and tell him about everything you have just said right now.
And tell him your sick off his games and if he feels the same way and then just go home and go in your room with a tub of ice cream waiting for him to call or msg but you can't call or msg but if you then your showing him that you are weak and that he can keep playing those games so wait and if he does not msg or call you leave him because that means HE'S INTO YOU.
Girls: How can i be more conservative and lady-like?
Well first off a description of me. I'm loud, can get very annoying, immature, outgoing, thrill seeker/dare devil, spontaneous, short-shorts wearing girl with a horrible sense of style. But i really want to be more conservative...you know, like reserved, well styled, lady-like, mysterious, effortless, classy, %26quot;less is more%26quot; and not all in your face kinda girl. I know that you can't change your personality but....i don't know, i get embarrassed by the way i act. And i'm 16 by the way :] so you could imagine. Please, someone must have advice for me!
Girls: How can i be more conservative and lady-like?
I think you'd do well by watching Pretty Woman and My Fair Lady, as both of these movies are about young, boisterous women who face changing their appearance and personality to become more sophisticated. They show a positive way to mix your natural exuberance with etiquette.
Beyond that, changing your clothes is easy. Look for clothing that isn't too revealing or tight. Consider taking a class that will teach you some kind of discipline, whether it's a class in etiquette, ballroom dancing, jazz dance, or horseback riding. All of these things require disciplining your mind and body to succeed which will teach you how to control yourself in other aspects of your life.
Don't forget, a lady is also confident and loves herself. If you're the crazy girl amongst your friends then be proud and learn to harness your naturally fun persona.
Girls: How can i be more conservative and lady-like?
lil b - violate that *****_
You can get many books at stores like Barnes and Noble about etiquette and class, or look it up on the internet. Or, just ask yourself %26quot;what would Audrey Hepburn do?%26quot; or Carla Bruni, or any classy lady. Watch some old movies, where women acted more classy and learn from them. Like Breakfast at Tiffanys. As for style, avoid stores like Love Culture and Wet Seal, and get books from the library about Givenchy, and designers, and then when shopping look for clean cut items that resemble those of high fashion.
i was kind of the same way back in middle school.
i would recommend changing your wardrobe slightly. maybe try wearing more skirts and blouses with necklaces and flats. check out places like forever 21 and charlotte rousse next time you're at the mall. they're both very lady-like and still very fashionable. also try toneing down make-up. i'm not sure how much you wear but maybe only wear alittle maskara and blush. that way you can still be outgoing but it's seen more in a %26quot;cute/girly%26quot; kind of way.
everything you say you are , be opposite ? lol but only change yourself if you really really want to change . don't do it because you feel like you have to or should . if you're unhappy the way you are now , then change until you feel like you're perfect . if you want to change your style , pick a few celebrity role models , look at how they dress , then start dressing similar to that . being classy takes practice , you won't just be good at it over night . if you have something obnoxious to say , try keeping it in your head . don't be in everyone's faces . well , good luck ! (:
study ingrid bergman and audrey hepburn
It really sets you apart to have class these days as a woman
most girls speak trashy dress trashy and dance trashy
don't gossip be kind but it's important to not become a snob
just add some of those characteristics to yourself and dismiss the ones you dont like
but dont try to become someone else because originality is much more lady like then being a carbon copy of someone else
Girls: How can i be more conservative and lady-like?
I think you'd do well by watching Pretty Woman and My Fair Lady, as both of these movies are about young, boisterous women who face changing their appearance and personality to become more sophisticated. They show a positive way to mix your natural exuberance with etiquette.
Beyond that, changing your clothes is easy. Look for clothing that isn't too revealing or tight. Consider taking a class that will teach you some kind of discipline, whether it's a class in etiquette, ballroom dancing, jazz dance, or horseback riding. All of these things require disciplining your mind and body to succeed which will teach you how to control yourself in other aspects of your life.
Don't forget, a lady is also confident and loves herself. If you're the crazy girl amongst your friends then be proud and learn to harness your naturally fun persona.
Girls: How can i be more conservative and lady-like?
lil b - violate that *****_
You can get many books at stores like Barnes and Noble about etiquette and class, or look it up on the internet. Or, just ask yourself %26quot;what would Audrey Hepburn do?%26quot; or Carla Bruni, or any classy lady. Watch some old movies, where women acted more classy and learn from them. Like Breakfast at Tiffanys. As for style, avoid stores like Love Culture and Wet Seal, and get books from the library about Givenchy, and designers, and then when shopping look for clean cut items that resemble those of high fashion.
i was kind of the same way back in middle school.
i would recommend changing your wardrobe slightly. maybe try wearing more skirts and blouses with necklaces and flats. check out places like forever 21 and charlotte rousse next time you're at the mall. they're both very lady-like and still very fashionable. also try toneing down make-up. i'm not sure how much you wear but maybe only wear alittle maskara and blush. that way you can still be outgoing but it's seen more in a %26quot;cute/girly%26quot; kind of way.
everything you say you are , be opposite ? lol but only change yourself if you really really want to change . don't do it because you feel like you have to or should . if you're unhappy the way you are now , then change until you feel like you're perfect . if you want to change your style , pick a few celebrity role models , look at how they dress , then start dressing similar to that . being classy takes practice , you won't just be good at it over night . if you have something obnoxious to say , try keeping it in your head . don't be in everyone's faces . well , good luck ! (:
study ingrid bergman and audrey hepburn
It really sets you apart to have class these days as a woman
most girls speak trashy dress trashy and dance trashy
don't gossip be kind but it's important to not become a snob
just add some of those characteristics to yourself and dismiss the ones you dont like
but dont try to become someone else because originality is much more lady like then being a carbon copy of someone else
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