its like being friends with you has to seem like the hardest thing in the world.
why do you have to make it harder for us when it doesnt even have to be?
i mean, just because you liked us girls doesnt mean that the friendship still isn't there.
its like we don't know who you are anymore and your distance becomes away from us. your attitude is slightly moody and somewhat angry, yet you still do things like help us out or care for us ( well the shy guy i knew did this).
how are we suppose to get back the guy that we once knew?
is it really that much to take in for you guys?
please comment thx ;)
Guys, why does your behaviour change if a girl says 'lets be friends'?
it's just awkward, but it'll wear off.
Guys, why does your behaviour change if a girl says 'lets be friends'?
Guys only want one thing from you when they react this way. Once you take away that option . . .
Put it this way, what you are seeing are his true colors. He didn't change, his facade went away.
Some people just don't know what being a friend is all about.
edit; to all who want to neg; Fyi - Friendship is not about convenience.
The only way i can explain is; its a hard change.
cause you just let us know you dont wanna give up the booty
If you really like a girl, and you actually get the courage to tell her that, it is a big blow to us when they say %26quot;lets just be friends%26quot;. Its not that we dont want to be friends, because personally I would rather have her in my life as a friend instead of not at all. Its hard to explain with a small comment really, if you want to talk about this feel free to email me!
because we want in your pants
Believe that people are hurt n need time to heal n if the friendship was there it will come back
maybe someone else will get the booty (not really ) it just makes it harder to consider friendship after perhaps more then just friends, at times some insecurity will come into play just give it your best and in time we men will understand and will always be loyal
Get the guy back you once knew???
aint gonna happen my dear. at least not this side of 20. once you and your male friends get past 21 it will be easier for you to say those fatefull words. it will also be easier for him to accept as hopefully maturity levels would have started
to seep in a bit better. hopefully by that time you wont even have to say those words cuz he will probably have picked up that you aint sniffin.
untill then let him wallow in his rejection. you cold heartead heart breaker you.
we don't want to waste our time with you if you not gettin %26quot;butt naked%26quot;!!!! ****freind bull**** life is short for dat i want pleasure dats why
Unrequited love tends to bring about disappointment: hope and expectations are shattered; as romantic feelings for one aren't returned.
it all has to do with over-thinking. it's that thing that you usually see in movies that affects girls. the girl falls in love with a guy and then when she realizes that he doesn't like her, or, worse, he likes someone else, it's more or less devastating for the girl. if you can honestly say that such a thing has never happened to you, consider yourself lucky. as childish as it may seem, it happens to a lot of people...even guys. although, one thing that you have done is made it into a generalization concerning all guys, which I take it you didn't mean to. however, if you really believe that all guys are like that, I hope you reconsider because it's not true for every guy. personally, I never try making a move on a friend unless I'm sure that she likes me first. that way I become really good friends with the girl and, more importantly, I am able to earn her respect, and in addition I am able to spend more time with the girl until she is ready for a relationship, and if she doesn't want a relationship it will be all right because I won't have made a move on her. I know that my approach kind of sounds stupid because it may be leading nowhere if the other person doesn't like you at all, but in the worst case scenario, you would still end up with a best friend. controlling yourself from over-thinking is something easier said than done, and if a guy is willing to put aside his feelings and make the friendship work, do try and forgive him and give him another chance because over-thinking a relationship and wanting it to be something more than it is is simply a natural tendency of the majority of the people.
