My friend told me that sometimes she asks people what they think of me. She said that most people say I'm boring or dull. I really don't want to be known as dull. Can you PLEASE give me tips on how to change and be more exciting. I do NOT want to go all emo or anything... just more funky or something. But the thing is that my mom won't let me leave the house in some ridiculously crazy outfit, and i would get embarrassed... So I can ware stuff a little crazy like zebra print and stuff but not like a Tutu! So not just what to wear... my personality too. Like what should I say when I'm trying to fit in? And like I have no clue what to do when i'm by the people that I want to be like... and I don't want to be considered a copy cat so I just leave before i get embarrassed. I really want to change so ALL answers are EXTREMELY appreciated!
THX
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PIGGY
How can you change your personality?
Aw. okay. i kno what u mean.You are prolly really fun and exciting inside... but you are too embarrased to show it. be yourself! be fun! be happy! tryout for the school plays and volenteer for fun activities at school! when someone is talking to you .... show them you are interested in what they are saying! Show your STYLE to everyone. because every girl has one! :D This is something i made for you as an idea of what you can wear.....!
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How can you change your personality?
I think it's called a lobotomy.
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u cant change ur pesonality u guys should be urself
Just become a nudist. Definitely will get you your wanted attention
How can you change your personality?
Try.
Don't ask us. This is all up to you.
be yourself
You need to just be yourself and you'll find a group of ppl who are like you. I would suggest to just go out more and be exposed to different kinds of ppl and social settings. See what makes you comfortable :)
don't over think things. just relax and hang out like you would with your closest friends. just be yourself.
I would try asking yourself a series of questions, it's really about finding out who you really are, what you like and what you don't like. Who cares what your friends think, you shouldn't wear something you don't like just to make them think you are exciting. If they think your dull, screw them, you don't need to impress anyone. Just try to get to know your self. What is your favorite color? Your favorite book? favorite movie? hair color, etc.
Only change your personality if you really want to. Befriend more people, be more outgoing, where outfits that stand out, but still be yourself.
I used to be kinda dull and shy and I just became more outgoing when I got older and now I wear these outfits I buy and mix and match and ppl notice me cuz of it. Just do whatever you want, not what others want
You shouldn't have to change who you are to make people like you. I think when they say you are dull, they really mean that you aren't very energetic and outgoing. Try building confidence and socializing more.
As for your clothes, wear what makes you happy. If you are uncomfortable in an outfit, people will be able to tell. I think you just need to embrace your personal style more.
I would start by not calling yourself %26quot;Piggy%26quot;
you should be yourself but a lot of people change. Maybe start talking more. try to be a class clown. be sarcastic people like that. make your clothing more flashy, in style ect.
You can't change your personality...that's who you are!
You shouldn't try to be like anyone. That can lead to problems. You should just be yourself and find people who will accept you. Maybe you could go out with people to malls, or movies more often.
Don't forget about your family. They can be fun to hang out with...well at least mine are.
you dont have to change who you are
be yourself and if you dont knw quite who you are research ur inner self you will be surprised dont live to other peoples standards that is lame the new in yourself
now to your clothing pick something that you will be comfortable in something unique for you not for anybody else
you rock!
For the talking, try and learn more about what people around you are talking about and get involved in the conversation, even if you have to BS (don't overdo it, though). For clothes, don't go out of your way to be a trendsetter or outrageous, but if you look at clothes that might have an odd pattern or color don't chicken out and think it's too much-if you like it, wear it. Chances are, if you like how the clothes look on you you'll be more confident and people will notice.
Why is your friend going around asking people if they think you're boring!?
I think your friend is trying to put you in a place that is comfortable for her. - And giving you an inferiority complex in the process.
There are actual psychological studies that show that most people change to match a change in style. Specifically, a change in hair color. Maybe you could try dying your hair, or getting a different style cut?
As for being perceived as dull, or trying to emulate people, you should be a little bit more open. Try talking a little more about your hobbies, or music/movies/whatever you like (or hate, even). Find out what other people find interesting, get them talking about it, and add your two cents.
I guess you could also try stuff like being a gossip, but that's no substitute for real personality.
If you know people who wear tutu's, go shoot yourself. Lmao. I'm kidding. Shoot the people that wear them lmao. If your boring or dull, you have to break out of your shell. If your friend is hanging out with some people, just jump in like you were there the whole time. You have to open up without going so far.
Honey,
You're approaching this all wrong. You don't need to change your personality, nor try to be like anyone. Be yourself, and expand the type of people you get to know. Find people that are like you, that enjoy and accept what you have to offer. And as far as what you wear, wear what ever makes you feel good. It doesn't matter what your friends or peers are wearing, if you like it, wear it. If that means plain and unexciting, so be it. If it means a little eccentric and not necessarily fashionable, so be it. Explore who you are, instead of trying to change it. Be yourself, 100% of the time. Find friends who respect you more than to comment about you behind your back!!
I would recomend putting out more. You don't need to change your woredrobe and you would be surprised how much more attention you'll recieve.
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