see in school im really quiet i dont know why my friends are always talking and i just sit there.In class im quiet.I want to be be talkative and fun and be willing to just go out and be crazy with my friends.How can i change????????
How to change....your personality?
Go out into the courage zone. Actually talk for once!
How to change....your personality?
Just Do It
-Nike
start talking and being crazy.. LOL the first time will be hard and awkward, but then ater wards it should be fine!! :D
dont worry, cut loose.. people rather people who are talking and fun.. if your too quite they wont like it obviously!
start getting out of ur shell just be random and speak out u might b scared to at first but for me it is tons of Fun and good luck its no Fun to be quiet i cant not talk now for more than 5min (i suck at the quiet game)
Start socializing more. Ask your friends if you can hang out with them. Once you start socializing more, someone will start a conversation with you and just go along with the flow. Next thing you know you'll be talking like a parrot.
Just go ahead and do it, and don't think about every little thing, but live in the moment, but make sure that you keep parts of your old self with you. Never change yourself completely.
Listen, I'm the same way. You shouldn't change yourself and like who you are. It's hard. I'm quiet and shy. And I've come to think of it as cute. THe less you talk the more people have to find out about you...you know? It's okay to be introverted. You can't change who you are. You can cover it up and do things out of your character but you're never going to change who you are deep inside. Some people will like who you are and others are gonna be assholes and want you to be different. you can't please everyone
Same position, it's ****** hard, huh? You make it though!
a little at a time.
Just act lyk ur hyper ALOT im rly shy and i just act crazy and yea just act happy and crazy it works :))))
you dont
Just talk! Dont change your personality completely just talk more it always works.
jus try it an it all can depend on who ur around
If you want to then you can. If something pops into your brain (that would not be completely and utterly embarrassing to say) then say it. If you think something's funny, laugh. If you feel like you want to scream for no reason then SCREAM FOR NO REASON!
try to hang out with people who dont know you as well, so you wont be shy to change it up a bit. if someone asks you to do something crazy, JUST GO FOR IT! whats the worst that could happen? but then again.. you gotta have the balls. you cant just wake up one morning and decided to be crazy (itll probably end up in disaster).. and i dont want you getting yourself in serious trouble. just try to be more social and just be down for anything that comes your way! slowly by slowly youll get to know yourself better and find out who youre comfortable being
Be confident. talk .don't be embarrassed
The truth is that you can't change your personality by trying to change it, you will only change with time. I was really shy at school and I really hated being so shy. Someone could ask me how I was and all I could think of to say was %26quot;good thankyou%26quot; and ask how they were back. I found it really hard to take a convo any further. The answers here saying %26quot;just talk%26quot; etc, mean well but I know that sometimes it's very hard to 'just talk'. I am a very different person to who I was at school. Time changed me for the better. I am 20 now and started nursing in a nursing home when I was 16 (I only went to year 10 at school). Being a nurse really built up my self confidence coz it forces you to step outside of your comfort zone. Now I am doing another course in nursing to become an Endorsed Enrolled Nurse and working for my practicle hours in hospitals has also built up my confidence too. I am not saying to leave school and start nursing, but I am just trying to show you girly that who you are now will be different to who you will be in 4 or 5 years.
When you are a teen it's really hard coz you feel so self consious and you just want to fit in. You are shy because you need more confidence and confidence only comes with experience. I would advise you to get a part time job and build up your confidence that way. Always know that you are special and that time will change you, but trying to change wont work. Learn to admire the person that you are. I'm sure you are a nice girl with really good qualities. Make a list of all of your good qualities and all of the things you like about yourself (both personality and physical) and when you feel bad about yourself go to that list to remember the great points you have too. The 'popular people' may seem happy but many of them aren't and many of them are not very nice people. Infact many of them have problems with their self esteem too.
As long as your personality is nice then please don't try to change it. People who try to be people they are not end up getting the oposite reaction to what they are wanting. People can tell when somebody is trying to act not like themselves.
Your personality will change with time I promise. :)
