What are ways to change my personality? I want to become a different person. I%26#039;m tired of who I am now.|||I would say identify the parts of your personality that you dislike and make a serious resolution to change them through your actions and attitude. I%26#039;m not sure exactly what you want to change about yourself, but here are some examples: If you%26#039;re a pessimistic person, decide that you ARE going to think positive thoughts. The next time you start looking at the downside of something, take a moment to stop and consider the brighter side. If you%26#039;re rude or unfriendly on a regular basis, try giving someone a genuine compliment instead of making a negative remark. If you find yourself lacking in confidence, challenge yourself to do something you think would be very difficult for you to accomplish, and stick to it until you prevail. An earnest effort will often take you farther than you ever thought you could go. It is sometimes possible to change your behavior and your way of thinking by repeatedly and consistently making yourself think thoughts and perform actions that support the ideals of the type of person you want to be. To provide a better answer I would have to ask you what it is about your personality you really wish to change. Sometimes it%26#039;s better to learn to love who you are and accept yourself that way, but if your actions are harmful to you or other people, it might be time for a change. Either way, if you want to change, it%26#039;s up to you to decide that you WILL change. Once you get to that point, there ain%26#039;t nothin%26#039; to it but to do it.|||See yourself. Seek a closer conscious contact with God.
You must know who and what you are first.
Become the witness of what you think,say and do.
Watch everything and everyone in your enviroment.Your enviroment is a reflection of your spiritual condition.
Your thoughts words and deeds create your life circumstances. choose them wisely.
Start by rejecting negative thought.
Seek forgiveness,give forgiveness to others and forget.|||Set a diffrent goal everyday and try to acheive it.
Try to keep thoes goals up as time passes.
Evaluate yourself by keeping a journal of some sorts; think about where you messed up and how you could improve. Also congradulate yourself when you do something good.
Try to think of something that will help you remember what you%26#039;re working for.|||Map out the changes that you want to make and set some goals -
Clothes help after all persona is linked to performance - as it means the mask that you speak though in ancient greek tragedies.
Play with the idea of perforimng as the new persona for a while till you meld with your ideal self.
i was interested to learn that some actors never come down from their roles as they are scared of being themselves so just get blotted out with alcohol till the next role comes along and they never have to meet themselves.
My son changed by giving himself a reason - he decided to be a writer and writers have to have lots of experiences so he went from being shy to being outgoing pretty much overnight.
I changed at the age of 16 when I left home and changed my name and constructed a new self in order to go to work and be more popular. I sloughed off my old life like a snakeskin and succeeded in forgetting it as it was pretty traumatic - later when I was stronger I revisited it and did the healing but wasnt capable at that time so I juts changed. Its easy if you let your past self go.|||Some resources that have helped many people:
%26quot;Sacred Psychology of Change: Life as a Voyage of Transformation,%26quot; Marilyn C. Barrick, Ph.D.
http://www.easwaran.org
%26quot;The Great Divorce,%26quot; C. S. Lewis,
%26quot;The Master of Lucid Dreams,%26quot; Dr. Olga Kharitidi,
%26quot;The Masters and Their Retreats,%26quot; Mark Prophet,
%26quot;The Reincarnation of Edgar Cayce?%26quot;, Free and Wilcock,
%26quot;Man, Master of His Destiny,%26quot; O. M. Aivanhov, and
http://www.carolbowman.com
http://www.dreamhealer.com
http://www.dreamviews.com
%26quot;To Live Within,%26quot; Lizelle Reymond,
%26quot;Autobiography of a Yogi,%26quot; Yogananda,
http://www.heartmath.org
http://www.noetic.org
Reviews at http://www.amazon.com|||first of all accept whole heartily u are..no matter how tired u get of urself...u will gradually *** 2 luv urself in the time 2 ***..and so will others..
for the time being...
don%26#039;t copy anybody..........just b what u are....more than changing the your
appearance and attire, focus more on inside thing.. just behave cool...make or rather convince others that u have changed completely...for betterr...
|||Get different friends. Do different things. Move to a new place. New wardrobe couldnt hurt. You are partly your surroundings, so if you change them, you yourself might follow. |||try to become better in evry sappect you think you need a change and I ahd a simmilar problem. I changed but then I got tired of it too. But then LOve ****** me up badly.
Good Luck though( : I%26#039;m rooting for ya|||wear a funny wig and do a horrible british accent, just run around and annoy the heck out of every one.
