Does anyone here find that there opinon of someones physical form changes to fit how you feel about their personality?
It does for me. I've noticed that girls I didn't used to find attractive become attractive when I get to know them if I like them and visa versa (how do you spell that by the way)?
Does anyone's opion of physical beauty change with your opinion of their personality?
Yeah,I've met guys who I didn't find that good looking,but after getting to know them,they were very sexy%26amp;others that were gorgeous,after knowing them,they were UGLY.
Does anyone's opion of physical beauty change with your opinion of their personality?
If meaning if you find someone very attrative because of there inner beauty and all of a sudden one of you're friends says what are you doing with her that she is not that attrative you will soon see you're self second guessing how attractive she is bec. of someone elses opinion. It's just natural for us as humans bec. you're right you can find a woman that is ok looking and get to know her and she has the greatest attitude and of a suden she is finer than fine but let someone tell you that she isn't that attractive and watch her go back to just being that girl that is ok no matter how good her personality is that's just my outlook on this ?
Yes I do find that to be the case. As I get to know and like someone, I find that they become more attractive to me as well. Familiarity doesn't have to breed contempt. I guess it goes to show that beauty is even less than skin deep.
Here's a different spin on your question...If I meet somone I find physically attractive, but it turns out she has a horrible personality/outlook/karma, (you fill in the blank here) I find myself not thinking they are so attractive afterward. It's a good observation you had to ask this question, well put. oh and vice versa is spelled correctiy.
Saturday 24 September 2011
For smokers, did your personality shift or change after you began smoking ?
Im really curious on this one. My friend for example who i grew up with began smoking in junior highschool. I didnt know at the time but when I think about it now, he used to be very nice guy and around the time he began smoking he turned into this aggressive asshole-like but funny. Also my uncle who smoked all his life also show many similar personality feel. My theory is that smoking increases dopamine level for short time. Ive also noticed this similar type of behavior in many people who smokes. (aggressive, talkative, confident, funny, shortfused ) So my question is if you are a smoker did you change into a different person before you smoked and after ? if so how ?
For smokers, did your personality shift or change after you began smoking ?
I started smoking many years ago because my father had a terminal illness and was told it would help to calm my nerves.
I am not aggressive at all, I do talk a lot, I'm not confident, I can be very funny, I'm not short fused.
It did help me not be so nervous at the time, and in an odd way was very comforting.
Like a pacifier for grown ups.
Now I am embarrassed and ashamed that I smoke.
Others look down on you, it feels like something I need to hide. I feel like people judge your intelligence if you're a smoker.
Hope this helps answer your question somehow.
For smokers, did your personality shift or change after you began smoking ?
I was a smoker for 21 years. I've been cigarette free for 1 1/2 years now.
Did my personality change when I began? Actually I think it changed right BEFORE I started smoking. I wanted to fit in with a certain image and group of people, and I can remember actually smoking despite how badly it hurt my lungs and made me cough.
I'm not saying you're wrong about eh dopamine levels, etc. That could certainly be a factor. BUT when I first began smoking I didn't even inhale much of the tobacco until about a year later. Also, exercise and smiling and antidepressants and all kinds of other things increase our dopamine levels for short or long times....and I don't think it turns most people into aggressive asshole-like people! (LOL)
I don't think cigarettes cause the change, really. I think that a big change in your life (or WANTING) a big change in your life can make folks turn to cigarettes.
Now, on the other hand, since I've quit smoking I do notice differences. I was very agitated and easily annoyed for a long while. I was constantly craving and missing the cigs. I was angry that I had to quit and jealous of smokers. I thought about them obsessively. Still do sometimes!
You know what? The first cigarette quitting pill they came out with (in my memory) was actually Wellbutrin, an antidepressant. So there is something to think about.
No matter what, there is something that makes a person smoke, and there is something ELSE that makes a person stay a smoker. I don't think the first time anyone smokes they love it, or enjoy it. So look at your friend's lifestyle. Maybe he/she is really needing something...like a good friend like you! Maybe they could use some counseling. I'd tell them to quit now before the nicotine addiction gets bad!
My friend cannot concentrate on several things at once and he cannot run as long as he used to, after he started. I would not recommend smoking, I strongly condem it.
Yes, more outgoing, confident, fun. And euphoric, you're always a bit buzzed. I don't remember getting short fused, except when I couldn't have a cigarette -- one of the symptoms of withdrawal is that you lash out at people.
For smokers, did your personality shift or change after you began smoking ?
I started smoking many years ago because my father had a terminal illness and was told it would help to calm my nerves.
I am not aggressive at all, I do talk a lot, I'm not confident, I can be very funny, I'm not short fused.
It did help me not be so nervous at the time, and in an odd way was very comforting.
Like a pacifier for grown ups.
Now I am embarrassed and ashamed that I smoke.
Others look down on you, it feels like something I need to hide. I feel like people judge your intelligence if you're a smoker.
Hope this helps answer your question somehow.
For smokers, did your personality shift or change after you began smoking ?
I was a smoker for 21 years. I've been cigarette free for 1 1/2 years now.
Did my personality change when I began? Actually I think it changed right BEFORE I started smoking. I wanted to fit in with a certain image and group of people, and I can remember actually smoking despite how badly it hurt my lungs and made me cough.
I'm not saying you're wrong about eh dopamine levels, etc. That could certainly be a factor. BUT when I first began smoking I didn't even inhale much of the tobacco until about a year later. Also, exercise and smiling and antidepressants and all kinds of other things increase our dopamine levels for short or long times....and I don't think it turns most people into aggressive asshole-like people! (LOL)
I don't think cigarettes cause the change, really. I think that a big change in your life (or WANTING) a big change in your life can make folks turn to cigarettes.
Now, on the other hand, since I've quit smoking I do notice differences. I was very agitated and easily annoyed for a long while. I was constantly craving and missing the cigs. I was angry that I had to quit and jealous of smokers. I thought about them obsessively. Still do sometimes!
You know what? The first cigarette quitting pill they came out with (in my memory) was actually Wellbutrin, an antidepressant. So there is something to think about.
No matter what, there is something that makes a person smoke, and there is something ELSE that makes a person stay a smoker. I don't think the first time anyone smokes they love it, or enjoy it. So look at your friend's lifestyle. Maybe he/she is really needing something...like a good friend like you! Maybe they could use some counseling. I'd tell them to quit now before the nicotine addiction gets bad!
My friend cannot concentrate on several things at once and he cannot run as long as he used to, after he started. I would not recommend smoking, I strongly condem it.
Yes, more outgoing, confident, fun. And euphoric, you're always a bit buzzed. I don't remember getting short fused, except when I couldn't have a cigarette -- one of the symptoms of withdrawal is that you lash out at people.
When You First Came Out: How did it feel?
I'm 18 and I haven't came out yet. I've had 2 Boy Friends already %26quot;I obviously kept it a secret from my parents%26quot;
I just want to know 1 thing though:
1. How does it feel like after you come out? Does it change your personality, behavior, etc?
When You First Came Out: How did it feel?
i havent either
im pretty sure its a big weight off yur chest(:
When You First Came Out: How did it feel?
It changed everything for me. Best feeling in the world! =)
i haven't come out to my dad yet because he'll tell my grandmother who is the most racist and homophobic person i know.
but my mom, she was raised traditionally, and didn't believe me when i told her i was bi.
and that really hurt.
I've only come out to one person, my best friend, and it just makes you feel so happy when they understand, its hard to put into words. If my sisters and family are as supportive, my body might burst open with joy!!!!!!!!!
I agree, best feeling in the world!
It felt good, but not as good as putting it back in.
i still havent came out to my parents but i came out to friends, cousins, sister, and aunt. i felt so relieved like a whole bunch of weight off my shoulders and i can be more of myself.
Even though I'm only out to a few people, I have changed a bit around them. I laugh a lot more and talk more, I have more confidence knowing I have their support. It's a good feeling, not having to lie as much.
WHEN I CAME OUT I WAS THE SAME EGOCENTRIC PERSON I WAS FROM THE START , bUT MY CHOICES N FRIENDS CHANGED IF THAT DOES U N E GOOD DO HAVE FRIEND THAT KNOW MY MOM KNOWS SHE DOEN'T CARE SHE JUST WANTS ME SAFE!!!!!! AS SHE SAY'S!!! SO TELL YOUR MOM 1ST!!!P.S. SHE MIGHT ALLREADY KNOW..............I'M 16 UNTIL THE 23RDOF THIS MONTH
I just want to know 1 thing though:
1. How does it feel like after you come out? Does it change your personality, behavior, etc?
When You First Came Out: How did it feel?
i havent either
im pretty sure its a big weight off yur chest(:
When You First Came Out: How did it feel?
It changed everything for me. Best feeling in the world! =)
i haven't come out to my dad yet because he'll tell my grandmother who is the most racist and homophobic person i know.
but my mom, she was raised traditionally, and didn't believe me when i told her i was bi.
and that really hurt.
I've only come out to one person, my best friend, and it just makes you feel so happy when they understand, its hard to put into words. If my sisters and family are as supportive, my body might burst open with joy!!!!!!!!!
I agree, best feeling in the world!
It felt good, but not as good as putting it back in.
i still havent came out to my parents but i came out to friends, cousins, sister, and aunt. i felt so relieved like a whole bunch of weight off my shoulders and i can be more of myself.
Even though I'm only out to a few people, I have changed a bit around them. I laugh a lot more and talk more, I have more confidence knowing I have their support. It's a good feeling, not having to lie as much.
WHEN I CAME OUT I WAS THE SAME EGOCENTRIC PERSON I WAS FROM THE START , bUT MY CHOICES N FRIENDS CHANGED IF THAT DOES U N E GOOD DO HAVE FRIEND THAT KNOW MY MOM KNOWS SHE DOEN'T CARE SHE JUST WANTS ME SAFE!!!!!! AS SHE SAY'S!!! SO TELL YOUR MOM 1ST!!!P.S. SHE MIGHT ALLREADY KNOW..............I'M 16 UNTIL THE 23RDOF THIS MONTH
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
Fitting into a new country requires you to be engaged with others. Learning a language helps you communicate and make friends. As international students learn how to speak English eloquently, they have confidence of talking to English-speaking students, which helps them make new friends. The language, thus, helps international students to be connected with others who are from different backgrounds. Understanding cultures and traditions also helps you to be involved in a new community. You have to appreciate and learn other people鈥檚 lifestyle to show respect. If you are ignorant of learning a new culture, you are making yourself be isolated from a new community. Adapting yourself, thus, helps you to be involved in a new country.
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to ___________. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
see/discover what lies ahead?
change who you are?
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
The main thing that's wrong is the use of the word 'you'. Never use it in essay type of writing. Only use it if you are writing directly to someone. You can use one's or we or them or they or our, basically any other pronoun that names persons or people. You can also reword your sentences so that pronouns are mostly unnecessary. Last sentence: Also, a change of personality helps in some way to change who we are. Rewrite it and post the question again.
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to ___________. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
see/discover what lies ahead?
change who you are?
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
The main thing that's wrong is the use of the word 'you'. Never use it in essay type of writing. Only use it if you are writing directly to someone. You can use one's or we or them or they or our, basically any other pronoun that names persons or people. You can also reword your sentences so that pronouns are mostly unnecessary. Last sentence: Also, a change of personality helps in some way to change who we are. Rewrite it and post the question again.
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
Fitting into a new country requires you to be engaged with others. Learning a language helps you communicate and make friends. As international students learn how to speak English eloquently, they have confidence of talking to English-speaking students, which helps them make new friends. The language, thus, helps international students to be connected with others who are from different backgrounds. Understanding cultures and traditions also helps you to be involved in a new community. You have to appreciate and learn other people鈥檚 lifestyle to show respect. If you are ignorant of learning a new culture, you are making yourself be isolated from a new community. Adapting yourself, thus, helps you to be involved in a new country.
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to ___________. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
This is the edited version:
Fitting into a new country requires you to be engaged with others. Learning a language helps you communicate and make friends.
As international students, learning how to speak English eloquently is essential so they have confidence while talking to other English-speaking students helping them make new friends. The language, thus, helps international students to be connected with others who are from different backgrounds. Understanding cultures and traditions also helps you to be involved in a new community. You have to appreciate and learn other people鈥檚 lifestyle to show respect. If you are ignorant of learning a new culture, you are making yourself isolated from a new community. Adapting yourself, thus, helps you to be involved in a new country.
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to survive. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.web page host black spot on skin
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to ___________. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.
Plz revise the short paragraph plz its urgent?
This is the edited version:
Fitting into a new country requires you to be engaged with others. Learning a language helps you communicate and make friends.
As international students, learning how to speak English eloquently is essential so they have confidence while talking to other English-speaking students helping them make new friends. The language, thus, helps international students to be connected with others who are from different backgrounds. Understanding cultures and traditions also helps you to be involved in a new community. You have to appreciate and learn other people鈥檚 lifestyle to show respect. If you are ignorant of learning a new culture, you are making yourself isolated from a new community. Adapting yourself, thus, helps you to be involved in a new country.
Intro
Changing your old way of dealing problems requires endurance and time. You have to transform your lifestyle in order to survive. It is important to make changes in your life to fit into a new country and university. Also, changing your personality helps you change who you are.
Love songs which changed your way of life.?
Which love song you listen to recently or over your life has changed your personality or ways of living.
Best answer for song and description of how and why it has changed you.
My song which changed me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmDL-EUFDDU
Love songs which changed your way of life.?
01.Air Supply - I Can't Wait Forever
02.Alphaville - Forever Young
03.Boy George %26amp; Culture Club - Love Is Love
04.Caravan - Pages With Kitaro
05.Chicago - You're The Inspiration
06.Dan Byrd - Boulevard
07.Foreigner - I Want To Know What Love Is
08.George Benson - Nothing's Gonna Change My Love For You
09.Jim Diamond - I Should Have Known Better
10.Kool %26amp; The Gang - Cherish The Love
11.Lionel Richie - Hello
12.Lionel Richie - Stuck On You
13.Paul McCartney - No More Lonely Nights
14.Peabo Bryson - If Ever You're In My Arms Again
15.Phil Collins - Againts All Odds
16.REO Speedwagon - One Lonely Night
17.Rockwell - Knife
18.Skool Boyz - You're The Best Thing In My Life
19.Stevie Wonder - I Just Called To Say I Love You
20.George Micheal - Careless Whispers
21. richard marx - right here waiting
22. bryan adams - please forgive me
23. bryan adams - everything i do (i do it for you)
24. michael learns to rock - that's why
25. chantal krevaizuk - living on a jet plane
26. six pence none the ritcher - kiss me
27. maroon 5 - this love
28. goo goo dolls - iris
29. aerosmith - i don't wanna miss a thing
30. celine dion - all by myself
31. bryan adams, sting, rod stewart - all for love
32. air supply - out of love
33. bon jovi - always
34. celine dion - my heart will go on
35.emilia - i'm a big girl in a big world
36. jet - are you gonna be my girl
37. josh groban - you raise me up
38. kenny g - the moment
39. matchbox 20 - if you're gone
40. spice girl - 2 become 1
41. take that - how deep is your love
42. the cranberries - linger
43. the wonders - that thing you do
44. trisha yearwood - how do i live
45. vanessa charlton - thousand miles
my favorite love songs, they all have influence
Best answer for song and description of how and why it has changed you.
My song which changed me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmDL-EUFDDU
Love songs which changed your way of life.?
01.Air Supply - I Can't Wait Forever
02.Alphaville - Forever Young
03.Boy George %26amp; Culture Club - Love Is Love
04.Caravan - Pages With Kitaro
05.Chicago - You're The Inspiration
06.Dan Byrd - Boulevard
07.Foreigner - I Want To Know What Love Is
08.George Benson - Nothing's Gonna Change My Love For You
09.Jim Diamond - I Should Have Known Better
10.Kool %26amp; The Gang - Cherish The Love
11.Lionel Richie - Hello
12.Lionel Richie - Stuck On You
13.Paul McCartney - No More Lonely Nights
14.Peabo Bryson - If Ever You're In My Arms Again
15.Phil Collins - Againts All Odds
16.REO Speedwagon - One Lonely Night
17.Rockwell - Knife
18.Skool Boyz - You're The Best Thing In My Life
19.Stevie Wonder - I Just Called To Say I Love You
20.George Micheal - Careless Whispers
21. richard marx - right here waiting
22. bryan adams - please forgive me
23. bryan adams - everything i do (i do it for you)
24. michael learns to rock - that's why
25. chantal krevaizuk - living on a jet plane
26. six pence none the ritcher - kiss me
27. maroon 5 - this love
28. goo goo dolls - iris
29. aerosmith - i don't wanna miss a thing
30. celine dion - all by myself
31. bryan adams, sting, rod stewart - all for love
32. air supply - out of love
33. bon jovi - always
34. celine dion - my heart will go on
35.emilia - i'm a big girl in a big world
36. jet - are you gonna be my girl
37. josh groban - you raise me up
38. kenny g - the moment
39. matchbox 20 - if you're gone
40. spice girl - 2 become 1
41. take that - how deep is your love
42. the cranberries - linger
43. the wonders - that thing you do
44. trisha yearwood - how do i live
45. vanessa charlton - thousand miles
my favorite love songs, they all have influence
I have watched Elfen Lied and some parts of it were quite confusing to get your head round?
Can you answer these questions I have please?
1. Was there some kind of statement in the anime which told you what happens when a diclonius has it's horn taken off?
2. Did Kurama commit suicide with his daughter in the end of the anime because he had took the lives of other people's children which were diclonius in the past but he never had the heart to kill his own so he felt selfish? And did he kill himself as well as his daughter because he felt too selfish to stay alive?
3. What was your most disturbing/difficult to watch scene? Mine was when the boys were bashing the puppy to death, I found that really hard to watch but I did. In fact any scene where Mayu's(I think that's her name, I mean that runaway girl) puppy was in danger or any scene where those boys were abusing Lucy was really difficult to watch, but I did.
4. What does Lucy and Khotda kissing those blank dummies in the intro symbolise?
5. Did you cry at any scenes in this? If so, what were they and how sad would you rate them on a scale of 1 - 10? 1 being the least saddest and 10 being the most saddest.
6. I know it's just an anime but don't you think it's strange how the diclonius in this anime have been isolated all their life with no education and can actually verbally construct a sentence when talking to someone?
7. What happened to that ruthless soldier who wore shades, hated the diclonius and was the leader of an army unit at the end of the anime?
8. Why did Lucy have that helmet on at the start of the anime? It's a wonder, especially since the other diclonius didn't have any on?
9. What happened to Mayu's(runaway girl) original father?
10. What happened to Lucy in the scene when the soldiers started to shoot at her offscreen and her other horn came off in the final episode?
11. This is possibly my biggest query; I just didn't get the ending. What happened to Lucy in the scene where the soldiers shot at her and her horn was shot off in the final episode? Why did the clock start working when the silhouette appeared at the entrance of the house and was that silhouette Lucy? How did she survive when the soldiers shot her horn off? Can't the diclonius not use their vectors when they're in pain and getting her horn shot off would hurt like hell since I think she was knocked unconscious when she got her first one taken off!?
12. Why did she go to the soldiers near the end of the final episode when she could have easily escaped with Khotda ?
13. How were the director of the diclonius facility and his son watered down diclonius'? Did they only have slight traces of diclonius DNA inide them when they were born?
14. Did this anime deeply touch your heart, change your personality and give you a whole new perspective on life? What would you give it out of 10 and give it a small review please?
15. What was the symbolism/hidden meaning behind this whole anime?
I have watched Elfen Lied and some parts of it were quite confusing to get your head round?
1. There's no hidden meaning to the horn being taken off. The horn is part of the diclonius' skull matter. So, its like taking or breaking a bone by force.
2. Yes and no. Yes because he wanted to atone from killing all the female diclonius. And, no because he didn't want to commit suicide.
3. I agree with you, and the part where Kohta where he watched his father and sister being killed was sad and horrifying. Also, the scene where Lucy's first friend died was just tragic. The scene where the boys bashing the puppies head was morbid, and tragic. My hair was standing on end, and I felt like wanting to kill those kids too.
4.It doesn't really mean anything. I think it just means love, I guess, but that's weird.
5.I did cry.
%26gt;%26gt;The bashing on the puppies head (9)
%26gt;%26gt;Maya being homeless, and taking care of herself and the puppy (10)
6. Didn't you remember that diclonius are able to learn faster than the average human being? As soon as they turn 3, they're able to have good speech, and they're very clever. They're isolated because of their intense emotions that enables them to accidentally or intentionally kill another.
7. I guess he just moves on. We don't really know what happens to him, except the fact that he's waiting for a good time to kill Lucy.
8.She was given a helmet because she can instantly kill someone within her range by just looking at them. The helmit is to conceal her eyesight.
9. Maya's father might have been yelled at by the mother. We aren't so sure of what happens to father because that scene was just left out. The anime is focusing on the main and supporting characters.
10. This part has been a real cliffhanger as well. We are not sure. It is in my own belief that she might have survived the blows.
11. This is a huge cliffhanger as I stated in #11. I think the sillouhette is indeed Lucy. The size is just right. The clock starts working as soon as other person who fixes it comes back. In the first few episodes, we see Nyu playing with it, and she might have fixed it by accident.
12. She didn't want to run away, and she wanted to end it by killing all of them off.
13. Actually, most diclonius being a mother's womb is like 7/10. Its not hereditary either. It just comes out of no where. A certain gene is mutated inside the mother's womb, creating the diclonius.
14. It really did. The sad and tragic scenes was something to cry over. It was a really good anime, with a mix of genre mixed into this small 13 episode series: romance, comedy, tragedy, horror, gore, adventure, sci-fi and fantasy. I'd give it 10/10. The characters are loveable to.
15. The meaning %26quot;Be friends with someone that is abnormal.%26quot;
%26quot;Don't betray them.%26quot;
%26quot;You're all family, even though you aren't related to them by blood.%26quot;
I have watched Elfen Lied and some parts of it were quite confusing to get your head round?
Sorry I don't feel like answering all I'm busy sorry.
Ok ok the ending...-sspoiler
Well when her horns is shot off you can kind of make up your own ending.
1. She takes the bullets and dies.
2.She gets the horns broken off so she dies like a human and not a monster.
3. She dies because she does not want Khota to be hurt again
4. Some say she survives too
The ending could be anything....but! I think the Manga is diffrent and longer so you should check it out....
Ummmm I was sad at the end...also mad.
First scene was the sickest to me 'cause i did not expect the anime to start like that.
Oh this show taught me that humans are the evil ones!
1. Was there some kind of statement in the anime which told you what happens when a diclonius has it's horn taken off?
2. Did Kurama commit suicide with his daughter in the end of the anime because he had took the lives of other people's children which were diclonius in the past but he never had the heart to kill his own so he felt selfish? And did he kill himself as well as his daughter because he felt too selfish to stay alive?
3. What was your most disturbing/difficult to watch scene? Mine was when the boys were bashing the puppy to death, I found that really hard to watch but I did. In fact any scene where Mayu's(I think that's her name, I mean that runaway girl) puppy was in danger or any scene where those boys were abusing Lucy was really difficult to watch, but I did.
4. What does Lucy and Khotda kissing those blank dummies in the intro symbolise?
5. Did you cry at any scenes in this? If so, what were they and how sad would you rate them on a scale of 1 - 10? 1 being the least saddest and 10 being the most saddest.
6. I know it's just an anime but don't you think it's strange how the diclonius in this anime have been isolated all their life with no education and can actually verbally construct a sentence when talking to someone?
7. What happened to that ruthless soldier who wore shades, hated the diclonius and was the leader of an army unit at the end of the anime?
8. Why did Lucy have that helmet on at the start of the anime? It's a wonder, especially since the other diclonius didn't have any on?
9. What happened to Mayu's(runaway girl) original father?
10. What happened to Lucy in the scene when the soldiers started to shoot at her offscreen and her other horn came off in the final episode?
11. This is possibly my biggest query; I just didn't get the ending. What happened to Lucy in the scene where the soldiers shot at her and her horn was shot off in the final episode? Why did the clock start working when the silhouette appeared at the entrance of the house and was that silhouette Lucy? How did she survive when the soldiers shot her horn off? Can't the diclonius not use their vectors when they're in pain and getting her horn shot off would hurt like hell since I think she was knocked unconscious when she got her first one taken off!?
12. Why did she go to the soldiers near the end of the final episode when she could have easily escaped with Khotda ?
13. How were the director of the diclonius facility and his son watered down diclonius'? Did they only have slight traces of diclonius DNA inide them when they were born?
14. Did this anime deeply touch your heart, change your personality and give you a whole new perspective on life? What would you give it out of 10 and give it a small review please?
15. What was the symbolism/hidden meaning behind this whole anime?
I have watched Elfen Lied and some parts of it were quite confusing to get your head round?
1. There's no hidden meaning to the horn being taken off. The horn is part of the diclonius' skull matter. So, its like taking or breaking a bone by force.
2. Yes and no. Yes because he wanted to atone from killing all the female diclonius. And, no because he didn't want to commit suicide.
3. I agree with you, and the part where Kohta where he watched his father and sister being killed was sad and horrifying. Also, the scene where Lucy's first friend died was just tragic. The scene where the boys bashing the puppies head was morbid, and tragic. My hair was standing on end, and I felt like wanting to kill those kids too.
4.It doesn't really mean anything. I think it just means love, I guess, but that's weird.
5.I did cry.
%26gt;%26gt;The bashing on the puppies head (9)
%26gt;%26gt;Maya being homeless, and taking care of herself and the puppy (10)
6. Didn't you remember that diclonius are able to learn faster than the average human being? As soon as they turn 3, they're able to have good speech, and they're very clever. They're isolated because of their intense emotions that enables them to accidentally or intentionally kill another.
7. I guess he just moves on. We don't really know what happens to him, except the fact that he's waiting for a good time to kill Lucy.
8.She was given a helmet because she can instantly kill someone within her range by just looking at them. The helmit is to conceal her eyesight.
9. Maya's father might have been yelled at by the mother. We aren't so sure of what happens to father because that scene was just left out. The anime is focusing on the main and supporting characters.
10. This part has been a real cliffhanger as well. We are not sure. It is in my own belief that she might have survived the blows.
11. This is a huge cliffhanger as I stated in #11. I think the sillouhette is indeed Lucy. The size is just right. The clock starts working as soon as other person who fixes it comes back. In the first few episodes, we see Nyu playing with it, and she might have fixed it by accident.
12. She didn't want to run away, and she wanted to end it by killing all of them off.
13. Actually, most diclonius being a mother's womb is like 7/10. Its not hereditary either. It just comes out of no where. A certain gene is mutated inside the mother's womb, creating the diclonius.
14. It really did. The sad and tragic scenes was something to cry over. It was a really good anime, with a mix of genre mixed into this small 13 episode series: romance, comedy, tragedy, horror, gore, adventure, sci-fi and fantasy. I'd give it 10/10. The characters are loveable to.
15. The meaning %26quot;Be friends with someone that is abnormal.%26quot;
%26quot;Don't betray them.%26quot;
%26quot;You're all family, even though you aren't related to them by blood.%26quot;
I have watched Elfen Lied and some parts of it were quite confusing to get your head round?
Sorry I don't feel like answering all I'm busy sorry.
Ok ok the ending...-sspoiler
Well when her horns is shot off you can kind of make up your own ending.
1. She takes the bullets and dies.
2.She gets the horns broken off so she dies like a human and not a monster.
3. She dies because she does not want Khota to be hurt again
4. Some say she survives too
The ending could be anything....but! I think the Manga is diffrent and longer so you should check it out....
Ummmm I was sad at the end...also mad.
First scene was the sickest to me 'cause i did not expect the anime to start like that.
Oh this show taught me that humans are the evil ones!
Can you be something that your not?
Well for the last 2 years I've transformed myself from a very fat ugly slob into a completely different person. I've become a pretty boy with a nice hairstyle, a nice body, and a life. Now that I'm very happy with the way my outer image is, I'm presented with another problem. Which is my own personality. I idolize my older brother. He's a pretty boy like me in his early 20's and hes just stunningly handsome. He's very cool headed and calm while I'm the bubbly, cheerful, obnoxious, talkative one. I feel very outspoken and am viewed as not serious which kills me. I feel very common. I've succeeded in looking the way I want but not how I am on the inside. I want to be able to be the calm, graceful pretty boy like my older brother is. Is it impossible to change your personality? Are we the way we are til the end? I was taught to %26quot;be myself%26quot; but what if I'm not happy with how I am? Should I embrace myself for who we are instead of trying to change it? At times I try to embrace myself for who I am but it starts to go out of control for example I'd be hyper laughing my butt off, and doing wild things in front of my friends which I feel is very unclassy. They accept me for who I am but I just don't feel happy. To be all hyper and jumpy and it just ruins my image and that saddens me.
Can you be something that your not?
Your personality is not your individuality. Personality is surface, a social construction, not what I consider your true self. However, it still exists. Finding something closer to your true individuality is difficult, and it took me a long time. If you're unhappy with who you are right now then you can change. It'll take a while for it to happen, and trial and error considering what you want. So yes, you can become something that you're not, but only you can figure out what you really want to become, and you'll probably go through this process for years and years--who says it ever ends? I'm only in my twenties right now. You can still be your true self--your individuality--but change your surface--your personality. As you learn to balance the two out to make you feel more like yourself then you'll become more and more happy. I used to have a lot of traits I hated, and I weeded them out slowly. You can still be bubbly and cheerful without the obnoxiousness, just find out who you really are, not who you're used to being.
Can you be something that your not?
Thereasa's answer is BS you can change what ever you want about your life, it's your life right? Be what ever the **** you wanna be! just keep workin at it.
Lay down and think. About yourself. Dig under all your disguises, and find yourself. It might be hard, but at least TRY. It can't hurt. FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS!!!!
For now, you are the bubbly, cheerful, outspoken person so yes, embrace that, if that is who you truly are and you're not trying to BE your brother. Stop comparing yourself to your brother and be happy that you're different from him. If there is something that you do that you don't like, because YOU don't feel comfortable being that person, then change but take it slow, one thing at a time. Maybe you're still in the phase of finding out who you are and maybe you don't really know who you are yet...so try trusting your own judgment and instincts and live life! It sounds like you made a huge change on your physical image, that's gotta take some time to settle. Go easy on yourself ;).
no, i have gone through the same thing. only, i am an extremely shy person,and my brother is outgoing and super confident. i have always admired my brother for that, but you really cant change. i have tried if you begin to change your going to start coming off as fake and your not going to be as liked as you already are, just give it time. it already sounds like you have made a fine change. be happy with what you are and not what you want to be.
Can you be something that your not?
Your personality is not your individuality. Personality is surface, a social construction, not what I consider your true self. However, it still exists. Finding something closer to your true individuality is difficult, and it took me a long time. If you're unhappy with who you are right now then you can change. It'll take a while for it to happen, and trial and error considering what you want. So yes, you can become something that you're not, but only you can figure out what you really want to become, and you'll probably go through this process for years and years--who says it ever ends? I'm only in my twenties right now. You can still be your true self--your individuality--but change your surface--your personality. As you learn to balance the two out to make you feel more like yourself then you'll become more and more happy. I used to have a lot of traits I hated, and I weeded them out slowly. You can still be bubbly and cheerful without the obnoxiousness, just find out who you really are, not who you're used to being.
Can you be something that your not?
Thereasa's answer is BS you can change what ever you want about your life, it's your life right? Be what ever the **** you wanna be! just keep workin at it.
Lay down and think. About yourself. Dig under all your disguises, and find yourself. It might be hard, but at least TRY. It can't hurt. FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS!!!!
For now, you are the bubbly, cheerful, outspoken person so yes, embrace that, if that is who you truly are and you're not trying to BE your brother. Stop comparing yourself to your brother and be happy that you're different from him. If there is something that you do that you don't like, because YOU don't feel comfortable being that person, then change but take it slow, one thing at a time. Maybe you're still in the phase of finding out who you are and maybe you don't really know who you are yet...so try trusting your own judgment and instincts and live life! It sounds like you made a huge change on your physical image, that's gotta take some time to settle. Go easy on yourself ;).
no, i have gone through the same thing. only, i am an extremely shy person,and my brother is outgoing and super confident. i have always admired my brother for that, but you really cant change. i have tried if you begin to change your going to start coming off as fake and your not going to be as liked as you already are, just give it time. it already sounds like you have made a fine change. be happy with what you are and not what you want to be.
Would you rather have a girl think your good looking and hated you or thought you were ugly and liked u 4 u?
if you think about it not everyone is going to like your personality and I know not everyone is going to think your good looking but i'd rather have a girl think i'm good looking but hate me for how I act as opposed to be thought of as an ugly guy but liked me for me. You can have a higher selection of women (well not any woman but you know what I mean) if your good looking and you can change your personality so yeah. GIRLS go out with guys they hate!!!
if your good looking and
Would you rather have a girl think your good looking and hated you or thought you were ugly and liked u 4 u?
True but REAL girls go out with guys with good personalities. Anyway, after 30 years what lasts? your looks or personality?
if your good looking and
Would you rather have a girl think your good looking and hated you or thought you were ugly and liked u 4 u?
True but REAL girls go out with guys with good personalities. Anyway, after 30 years what lasts? your looks or personality?
Does being a football fan change the way you are as a person?
like some fans like to have a drink before and after the match does it change your personality more than if you havent had a drink? not being bullying im a non drinker im curious thats all...not tryin to incite or intimadate or bully....i want to have a drink at the weekend and i dont want to make myself ill, so how do you drink does it make you happy or does it change you into an angry person.... because some people get in your face and shout are you one of those people?
Does being a football fan change the way you are as a person?
Being a football fan doesn't change anything about my personality, what you see is what you get. I very rarely drink and never ever before a match I go to or after the match. I hated waking in the morning with someone else's head on and a mouth like a buzzard's crotch so I stopped drinking except on very rare occasions.
Does being a football fan change the way you are as a person?
my ex was a football fan(celtic)and he would get aggressive if they lost and get drunk and outta control,he was a real pain in the ***,hence reson hes my ex,,a lot of scottish guys are like this,i think its genetic or something,drink def chages people,usually for the worse.i work in a bar and see it 1st hand most weekends,loud,drunk aggressive men who normally would not say boo to anyone,,making an **** of themselves(women do too!)i too am teetotal(through choice),never again would i go out with a drunken scottish beer monster!
hope not.i like a drink before and after the game
but im a happy,stupid drunk.
life is to short for all that nonsense
Caramel Wafer i am offended by your comments the slander on Scottish men is out of order. to come out with a ludicrous statement of it being genetic is foolish, people drink because they wish to while alcohol can and does make people act out of control when enjoyed in moderation it is not dangerous. It is not localised to Scotland in fact England has a pretty poor reputation for drunken violence especially worldwide when other countries and bars are trashed when England do not qualify and this is directly related to football if you do not like to be around drunk people get a job outwith the hospitality industry Hypocrite
when I used to get the supporters bus we always met up at the Celtic Club and had a few drinks, but never got myself in such a state that it changed my personality, remember quite a few buds who would get so drunk they never made the game and if they did, wouldnt remember a damn thing bout it.web ftp hosting low cost web hosting
Does being a football fan change the way you are as a person?
Being a football fan doesn't change anything about my personality, what you see is what you get. I very rarely drink and never ever before a match I go to or after the match. I hated waking in the morning with someone else's head on and a mouth like a buzzard's crotch so I stopped drinking except on very rare occasions.
Does being a football fan change the way you are as a person?
my ex was a football fan(celtic)and he would get aggressive if they lost and get drunk and outta control,he was a real pain in the ***,hence reson hes my ex,,a lot of scottish guys are like this,i think its genetic or something,drink def chages people,usually for the worse.i work in a bar and see it 1st hand most weekends,loud,drunk aggressive men who normally would not say boo to anyone,,making an **** of themselves(women do too!)i too am teetotal(through choice),never again would i go out with a drunken scottish beer monster!
hope not.i like a drink before and after the game
but im a happy,stupid drunk.
life is to short for all that nonsense
Caramel Wafer i am offended by your comments the slander on Scottish men is out of order. to come out with a ludicrous statement of it being genetic is foolish, people drink because they wish to while alcohol can and does make people act out of control when enjoyed in moderation it is not dangerous. It is not localised to Scotland in fact England has a pretty poor reputation for drunken violence especially worldwide when other countries and bars are trashed when England do not qualify and this is directly related to football if you do not like to be around drunk people get a job outwith the hospitality industry Hypocrite
when I used to get the supporters bus we always met up at the Celtic Club and had a few drinks, but never got myself in such a state that it changed my personality, remember quite a few buds who would get so drunk they never made the game and if they did, wouldnt remember a damn thing bout it.
Did you change after meeting your natural parent/s?
Adoptees, after you were reunited did your personality, attitudes, or understanding of adoption change? How? I've heard others mention how the experience affected them and would love to hear more views on this.
Did you change after meeting your natural parent/s?
I don't think I changed. Not exactly. I had a better sense of who I am. Maybe that gave me a bit more confidence and self-assuredness. But I don't think I changed who I was, fundamentally.
What did change, for me, was an unwillingness to continue to play roles that ill-fit me. I had for many years been the peacemaker in my family. While I probably still fall into that sometimes, I'm less likely to, now. It's not a role I ever felt comfortable with, and I notice an unwillingness to let others put me into that role. Maybe that goes a long with having a better sense of who I am. I'm not sure.
So, deep down, no change. But I think I'm better in touch with that %26quot;deep down%26quot; now. And that's important to me.
Did you change after meeting your natural parent/s?
No she was everything I was told she was. I never want or need to see her again. She is a horrible person. Thank God for my Adoptive Mom. She is my real mom. The other woman is just the woman that had me.
No, it didn't change my personality. I mean, I am who I am. That remains. But, it helped me greatly to finally have the rest of the picture. I understand more about my origins. I see people with whom I share personality and physical traits in a way that I didn't have before. Perhaps that doesn't seem like much to people who've always had it, but it was something that I wanted. It means a lot to me to have it. It makes me more comfortable with who I am.
Getting to know my first family and what happened prior to my adoption has filled in some blank spaces. It was hard for me to see how much pain my relinquishment caused my first family -- extended family included. Seeing my father in tears and hearing about how he searched and suffered wasn't something I was expecting. It was hard to watch. Seven years later, we have a great relationship, and it's good to see him happy.
I met my biological mother and father at the age of fifteen. However, all of my life I had known I was adopted and knew from what my adoptive parents told me was that my biological parents were loving people and wanted me to have a better life as they could not care for my needs. I was suppose to be severely disabled and very young.
Well, when I met them a lot of birth history I had previously known was false cause first my file was lost and the social worker did my history from memory, then also my biological mother and father refused to give any medical information and so forth.
I have many medical problems and no one has understood the cause, although I had similar problems to foster children in our home with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Biological family members told me my biological mother did drink and do drugs and did not know she was pregnant for some time however, she to this day denies it all and blames myself and the ministry for my problems.
She was not so young being 25 at the time of my birth, my biological father was 18 so he was young. When I met my biological mother she wanted to be %26quot;my mother%26quot; and control my life, well no thank you, but I have a mother. Then she started lying about when I was born, at 30 weeks premature and she said that the doctors were lying, that I was born at 34 weeks, then later 35 weeks, then 32 weeks and on and on.
I was indeed born at 30 weeks, and she apparently went to the ER demanding an ultrasound as she claimed she had the chicken pox, but that is not linked to any of my medical problems and rarely does that affect the fetus. Then nowhere does it say she had the chicken pox on medical files even hers, it was unknown.
She has lied to me, over and over and says crap about me to myself and about my family and most recently for the millionth time cut me out of her life, a loss to her not I.
She wanted me in her life, and this time around asked what worked best for myself. I said e-mail for communication was best, she did not like that. She phoned me and bitched about my mother to me, then said I want to know nothing about your family, yet sat there grilling me on the phone about them.
I e-mailed her saying I was upset with her commons and would prefer she did not make any negative comments about them. Then later that day I got an e-mail saying I could hate her and her family, that she wanted nothing to do with me and did care about me (bs). Anyway, my mother and many close adults in my life read all the e-mails I sent my biological mother and not once did I say I hate her, everyone was confused as to where she got that idea.
Anyway, I feel sorry for my biological siblings that life with her and our biological father. My biological father, well everyone in that family lets my biological mother control them. Sad, but one day it could come back to haunt her.
I wish at times never met her, I still am very angry with her as only year ago I found out about the drugs and drinking, only time with help heal. I wish I could have a relationship with my full siblings, but my biological mother makes that impossible. They think it's my fault for not seeing them as well.
I just am more grateful for being adopted.
I became more of myself.
It's like I finally had the manual that everyone else has at the beginning of their lives. It took a couple years, but everything clicked.
There are environmental issues, though. My nmother says I have 'downstairs' mentality. As in upstairs/downstairs. Say a person who comes to clean my house doesn't do a very good job, I blow it off. Mother thinks this is very 'downstairs' of me, and that I should get what I pay for. She believes that I identify with 'downstairs' too much.
But having been raised with my afamily (who had very downstairs mentality) I believe that no matter how much money I have, I will never quite get upstairs.
Finding my bparents did not change my personality at all. It did fill in a few pieces of my own puzzle. It also made me realize that I knew much more about them than I realized...just hints of intuition throughout my life that I never trusted but should have.
However the experience of having to petition the courts for my records to be opened...that was humiliating. Having to pay a hefty sum of money to get information about myself that every non-adopted citizen can get for free...that made me realize the discrimination that I suffer as an adoptee. The ridiculous irony that I know my bparents names and addresses, but I cannot get a copy of my original birth certificate to protect their anonymity...uuuh...is not what makes this country great. So, the experience of bureaucratic red-tape, suffering the effects of outdated rules about secrecy, and the very real and continuous discrimination definitely changed me.
I do not think I change, I pretty much knew who I was and was where I wanted to be in life before the reunion occured. Like KTea my reunion was not the best with my birthmom. She is a negative, overbearing person, but I did not let that affect my life. We are to the point were we have limited contact, an email or call once a year. It definately brought me closer to my parents and I realized how speical our relationship was.
My understanding of my adoption became slightly clearer. Back when I was adopted little was truly known about reason's why, who etc. Most stories where they wanted a better life, etc. etc. I heard a variety of stories from my BirthMom, but in the end my BirthFather told me the truth. I do have a good friendship with him, so that relationship did enrich my life.
never met em, but i might like adoption more if i did cause they probably are messed up.
I met my birth parents when I was a teenager, and it helped me so much. I felt so lost and had a lot of depression issues. Once I met them and knew their story and where I came from I felt so much better. Before I knew them, I felt like I had been rejected by my own flesh and blood. Afterward, I understood that they actually had SO much love for me, that they carried me full term (instead of abortion) so that they could not only give me the chance of having a life, but a life much better than what they could give. After meeting them, I think I turned into a much more positive person, and I didn't have to take anti-depressants anymore.
I have become more personally authentic after meeting my n-family.
Yes. I found a part of me, i never had the trust to believe was really me. It validated a lot for me. I was in a semi fog, and it lifted....a lot.
I felt sad that my bio father was never a part of my life growing up, But I can't say I love him because I don't know him. I think of him more as a friend. It was neat to see what physical traits we have in common, But that's about it.
I could care less about my Natural parents. They aren't even my parents. They are just another stranger. Seriously , dont do any of that bullxxxx and go looking for your natural parents. Its just stupid , and it makes your REAL parents feel really really bad.
Did you change after meeting your natural parent/s?
I don't think I changed. Not exactly. I had a better sense of who I am. Maybe that gave me a bit more confidence and self-assuredness. But I don't think I changed who I was, fundamentally.
What did change, for me, was an unwillingness to continue to play roles that ill-fit me. I had for many years been the peacemaker in my family. While I probably still fall into that sometimes, I'm less likely to, now. It's not a role I ever felt comfortable with, and I notice an unwillingness to let others put me into that role. Maybe that goes a long with having a better sense of who I am. I'm not sure.
So, deep down, no change. But I think I'm better in touch with that %26quot;deep down%26quot; now. And that's important to me.
Did you change after meeting your natural parent/s?
No she was everything I was told she was. I never want or need to see her again. She is a horrible person. Thank God for my Adoptive Mom. She is my real mom. The other woman is just the woman that had me.
No, it didn't change my personality. I mean, I am who I am. That remains. But, it helped me greatly to finally have the rest of the picture. I understand more about my origins. I see people with whom I share personality and physical traits in a way that I didn't have before. Perhaps that doesn't seem like much to people who've always had it, but it was something that I wanted. It means a lot to me to have it. It makes me more comfortable with who I am.
Getting to know my first family and what happened prior to my adoption has filled in some blank spaces. It was hard for me to see how much pain my relinquishment caused my first family -- extended family included. Seeing my father in tears and hearing about how he searched and suffered wasn't something I was expecting. It was hard to watch. Seven years later, we have a great relationship, and it's good to see him happy.
I met my biological mother and father at the age of fifteen. However, all of my life I had known I was adopted and knew from what my adoptive parents told me was that my biological parents were loving people and wanted me to have a better life as they could not care for my needs. I was suppose to be severely disabled and very young.
Well, when I met them a lot of birth history I had previously known was false cause first my file was lost and the social worker did my history from memory, then also my biological mother and father refused to give any medical information and so forth.
I have many medical problems and no one has understood the cause, although I had similar problems to foster children in our home with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Biological family members told me my biological mother did drink and do drugs and did not know she was pregnant for some time however, she to this day denies it all and blames myself and the ministry for my problems.
She was not so young being 25 at the time of my birth, my biological father was 18 so he was young. When I met my biological mother she wanted to be %26quot;my mother%26quot; and control my life, well no thank you, but I have a mother. Then she started lying about when I was born, at 30 weeks premature and she said that the doctors were lying, that I was born at 34 weeks, then later 35 weeks, then 32 weeks and on and on.
I was indeed born at 30 weeks, and she apparently went to the ER demanding an ultrasound as she claimed she had the chicken pox, but that is not linked to any of my medical problems and rarely does that affect the fetus. Then nowhere does it say she had the chicken pox on medical files even hers, it was unknown.
She has lied to me, over and over and says crap about me to myself and about my family and most recently for the millionth time cut me out of her life, a loss to her not I.
She wanted me in her life, and this time around asked what worked best for myself. I said e-mail for communication was best, she did not like that. She phoned me and bitched about my mother to me, then said I want to know nothing about your family, yet sat there grilling me on the phone about them.
I e-mailed her saying I was upset with her commons and would prefer she did not make any negative comments about them. Then later that day I got an e-mail saying I could hate her and her family, that she wanted nothing to do with me and did care about me (bs). Anyway, my mother and many close adults in my life read all the e-mails I sent my biological mother and not once did I say I hate her, everyone was confused as to where she got that idea.
Anyway, I feel sorry for my biological siblings that life with her and our biological father. My biological father, well everyone in that family lets my biological mother control them. Sad, but one day it could come back to haunt her.
I wish at times never met her, I still am very angry with her as only year ago I found out about the drugs and drinking, only time with help heal. I wish I could have a relationship with my full siblings, but my biological mother makes that impossible. They think it's my fault for not seeing them as well.
I just am more grateful for being adopted.
I became more of myself.
It's like I finally had the manual that everyone else has at the beginning of their lives. It took a couple years, but everything clicked.
There are environmental issues, though. My nmother says I have 'downstairs' mentality. As in upstairs/downstairs. Say a person who comes to clean my house doesn't do a very good job, I blow it off. Mother thinks this is very 'downstairs' of me, and that I should get what I pay for. She believes that I identify with 'downstairs' too much.
But having been raised with my afamily (who had very downstairs mentality) I believe that no matter how much money I have, I will never quite get upstairs.
Finding my bparents did not change my personality at all. It did fill in a few pieces of my own puzzle. It also made me realize that I knew much more about them than I realized...just hints of intuition throughout my life that I never trusted but should have.
However the experience of having to petition the courts for my records to be opened...that was humiliating. Having to pay a hefty sum of money to get information about myself that every non-adopted citizen can get for free...that made me realize the discrimination that I suffer as an adoptee. The ridiculous irony that I know my bparents names and addresses, but I cannot get a copy of my original birth certificate to protect their anonymity...uuuh...is not what makes this country great. So, the experience of bureaucratic red-tape, suffering the effects of outdated rules about secrecy, and the very real and continuous discrimination definitely changed me.
I do not think I change, I pretty much knew who I was and was where I wanted to be in life before the reunion occured. Like KTea my reunion was not the best with my birthmom. She is a negative, overbearing person, but I did not let that affect my life. We are to the point were we have limited contact, an email or call once a year. It definately brought me closer to my parents and I realized how speical our relationship was.
My understanding of my adoption became slightly clearer. Back when I was adopted little was truly known about reason's why, who etc. Most stories where they wanted a better life, etc. etc. I heard a variety of stories from my BirthMom, but in the end my BirthFather told me the truth. I do have a good friendship with him, so that relationship did enrich my life.
never met em, but i might like adoption more if i did cause they probably are messed up.
I met my birth parents when I was a teenager, and it helped me so much. I felt so lost and had a lot of depression issues. Once I met them and knew their story and where I came from I felt so much better. Before I knew them, I felt like I had been rejected by my own flesh and blood. Afterward, I understood that they actually had SO much love for me, that they carried me full term (instead of abortion) so that they could not only give me the chance of having a life, but a life much better than what they could give. After meeting them, I think I turned into a much more positive person, and I didn't have to take anti-depressants anymore.
I have become more personally authentic after meeting my n-family.
Yes. I found a part of me, i never had the trust to believe was really me. It validated a lot for me. I was in a semi fog, and it lifted....a lot.
I felt sad that my bio father was never a part of my life growing up, But I can't say I love him because I don't know him. I think of him more as a friend. It was neat to see what physical traits we have in common, But that's about it.
I could care less about my Natural parents. They aren't even my parents. They are just another stranger. Seriously , dont do any of that bullxxxx and go looking for your natural parents. Its just stupid , and it makes your REAL parents feel really really bad.
Why do I feel like my personality sucks?
For a lack of a better word. I feel like I'm just so socially awkward and I always get the feeling that people don't like me. I have no idea why. I try to make myself seem interesting and fun but I still get the same feeling.
I look at other people and their personalities seem so much better than mine. They are actually funny and outgoing and fun to be around, and everyone loves talking to them. I don't know how to be like that. I try but still seem to fail. It's not even just in real life, it's also on the Internet. I try to go on those blogging sites like Livejournal and Twitter but I never get friends, I never know what to post, I'm constantly thinking what can I say to make myself funny.
Can you really change your personality and acquire a sense of humor and become outgoing? Or is it just something in our genes and we have to accept it as who we are and there's nothing wrong with it, personality-wise?
Why do I feel like my personality sucks?
LOTS OF PEOPLE THINK THEY ARE NOT WORTHY ,its all part of growing up, so look in the mirror and tell your self your are as good as anyone and BE POSITIVE IN ALL YOU DO .
Why do I feel like my personality sucks?
There's only one thing wrong about you, you're trying to be someone else! Stop doing that and be yourself, I'm sure you cannot please everyone (because no one can) but I promise you you will end up meeting with people that appreciate you for who you really are and enjoy your company.
Don't EVER try and change who you really are! take a look at this forum http://acommunityforbloggers.com/ sign up and start being a part of the community, I'm sure you'll find someone that appreciates you there :) good luck
You are asking all the wrong questions. Why would you want a bunch of people on the internet who don't even know you to like you? Who cares what they think? Having friends is overrated if they don't like you for you. Think about the people who like to hang around you when you are just being yourself, those are the people that matter, everyone else is trivial.
You can pray about your life. Tell God about your problems. God is love. Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: %26quot;Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.%26quot; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
your trying to hard start not to give a **** and things will fall into place it did for me i was in the exact same position as you
I look at other people and their personalities seem so much better than mine. They are actually funny and outgoing and fun to be around, and everyone loves talking to them. I don't know how to be like that. I try but still seem to fail. It's not even just in real life, it's also on the Internet. I try to go on those blogging sites like Livejournal and Twitter but I never get friends, I never know what to post, I'm constantly thinking what can I say to make myself funny.
Can you really change your personality and acquire a sense of humor and become outgoing? Or is it just something in our genes and we have to accept it as who we are and there's nothing wrong with it, personality-wise?
Why do I feel like my personality sucks?
LOTS OF PEOPLE THINK THEY ARE NOT WORTHY ,its all part of growing up, so look in the mirror and tell your self your are as good as anyone and BE POSITIVE IN ALL YOU DO .
Why do I feel like my personality sucks?
There's only one thing wrong about you, you're trying to be someone else! Stop doing that and be yourself, I'm sure you cannot please everyone (because no one can) but I promise you you will end up meeting with people that appreciate you for who you really are and enjoy your company.
Don't EVER try and change who you really are! take a look at this forum http://acommunityforbloggers.com/ sign up and start being a part of the community, I'm sure you'll find someone that appreciates you there :) good luck
You are asking all the wrong questions. Why would you want a bunch of people on the internet who don't even know you to like you? Who cares what they think? Having friends is overrated if they don't like you for you. Think about the people who like to hang around you when you are just being yourself, those are the people that matter, everyone else is trivial.
You can pray about your life. Tell God about your problems. God is love. Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: %26quot;Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.%26quot; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
your trying to hard start not to give a **** and things will fall into place it did for me i was in the exact same position as you
Ladies what's your opinion on this?
“The Most Dangerous Mistake YOU Probably Make With Women”
I want to ask you a very important question.
Are you GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY every time you meet a
beautiful woman?
Do you ever put on a mask and change your personality around
an attractive woman or anyone else?
Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you
and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?
Do you ever try to prove to people how “cool” or “smart” you
are?
Well, if you are the first thing I want you to do is STOP!
It’s IDIOTIC behavior.
And with that here is your first tip:
If you want to be REALLY successful with beautiful women,
you need to treat them like anyone else.
You need to realize that there is no difference between that
hot 22 year old than there was when she was an overweight 12
year old with glasses and braces.
Get it?
If you really want to stand out to a woman you CAN’T let the
pressure to be Mr. Cool fu*k with your personality.
How would you treat this “hot” girl if she suddenly gained
100 pounds?...
That’s what I’m talking about.
My point is that if you want to be successful with women,
you need to treat them the same regardless of looks.
She’s only “hot” when you decide that she is... plus your
definition of “hot” is some else’s ugly… if you really want
to get through to her don’t address her as “the hot girl”
but as another person.
Let me give you an example.
If you met Will Ferrell how would you address him?
How would you treat him if you knew him as a celebrity and praise him…
Would you treat him any differently than if you met him at
McDonalds and struck up a conversation having no idea who he
was?
When you’re talking to a girl don’t treat her for the
persona you’ve given her… don't treat her with %26quot;celebrity%26quot; status.
just treat her like another person.
You’ve been ****** up by this idea of teachers, bosses,
parents and this idea of a social “ladder” and believing
that one human life is better than another one.
Would you treat Tom Brady any differently if he was a bum
on the street than “Quarterback of the New England
Patriots”?
I think you get the idea.
YOU NEED TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
You can’t let how rich, handsome, powerful or famous someone
is cause you to treat them ANY differently. They’re not
magically blessed – they’re no better or worse than anyone
else… they’re just humans going through their lives like
anyone else.
Looking at life this way will benefit you because once you
accept that you’re equal to everyone else, you will no
longer look to those who are “better” than you for
validation.
An example being that you realize you no longer need to try
to impress a girl just because she’s “hot”.
The reason this is so powerful is because when you think this way then you’re no longer putting others in control of your emotions and
you're no longer allowing others to have control of or your
fate… you don’t have control over anyone but yourself and
once you accept control of your life, that you’re going
to answer to NO ONE and that you’re NOT going to let anyone
else have ANY effect on your behavior your life will start
getting under your control and women will find you
incredibly attractive.
When you do your own thinking with NO concern for what anyone
else thinks, you also put yourself on TOP of the social
ladder. You don't need anyone else's approval and expect others to answer to YOU.
... Women perceive that you’re comfortable with who you are (and find it VERY attractive).
Another benefit to this is that it shows others you have
options in your life… if you acting needy, nervous or afraid
about a woman's reaction what do you think she assumes about you?
... That YOU’RE DESPRATE and you don’t have options so you’re
desperate to get her.
Do you think she wants a needy, insecure guy?
HELL NO!
She wants a confident man who’s in control and knows what
he’s doing.
She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it
with no excuses. A man who she can feel safe and protected with.
If you want an example of what I’m talking about think about
this.
Think of the most gorgeous girl you know.
Now, If Brad Pitt came up to her what do you think he would
do?
Do you think he would be nervous and say, “hey… so what’s
your name? What are you doing here? I was wondering if I
could talk to you” and sit around and FORCE boring
conversation with her because he NEEDED her to like him?
... do you think he'd waste months or even just HOURS trying
to play it cool and flirt with her hoping she'd be attracted
to him?
Could you see Brad Pitt trying to force small talk with a
woman and put himself BELOW a woman from the moment he
starts talking to her?
I doubt it.
He would walk in confidently, probably knowing he has
T
Ladies what's your opinion on this?
Wo, you give quite good advice. That is exactly what every women looks for...
Ladies what's your opinion on this?
uhh.. sorry too much to read..:)
why, you hint and binge for uncommon yet extremely general answers.
Indeed. men, women, we are all human and have flaws. Treat everyone as a individual worth his or her own attempts.
i totally agree
this is just what woman look for in men(:
Honestly, this sounds like that pick up artist garbage.
You're still playing the game. If a piggish, ugly bum of a man %26quot;called me out%26quot;, I would hand out a good dose of snark and make sure everyone around heard.
tldr
Getting women is not this complicated. Guys over think this whole process way too often. Getting women is only complicated when you are trying to get a woman that you shouldn't be interested in(as in a woman that has no natural interest in you).
wow i am so happy to hear a man say that!! if half the boys out there were like that they would be happier!! you will absolutley have no trouble getting girls in the future!!!
I wish more people would realize this. see, this is why i made this one question about %26quot;describe your dream girl%26quot; most of the guys talked all about the physical stuff, like 85% wanted a girl that was freakin 5%26quot;8 and 110 lbs. that just seems freaking anorexic to me and freakishly tall. i mean i have some standards to who i would date but for goodness sake im not saying how tall he should be or his weight. i've liked guys that were the hottest ever because i love their personality and how they treated me. some guys cant understand the same concept. = (
Somethings I agree with. I agree that a man should be confident. However, I have said no to many cocky men, because arrogance is a huge turn off. So it's a fine line. It says not to complement on looks, but when my boyfriend tells me that I look beautiful, I am on cloud nine.
Something I do on dates is I see how the man I am with treats the waitstaff or the cashier at the movie theater. If he treats them in a kind, friendly manner, it says loads about him personally. If he doesn't, or if he's snappy and treats them inferior manner, their usually isn't a second date.
The article says %26quot;Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?%26quot; Besides spelling %26quot;Extremely%26quot; incorrectly, I think there are some flaws in this logic. I know my gal friends and myself all appreciate when I guy does most of the work getting things started, but in the end, we like being the ones who ultimately decide.
Anywho, hope that helps some.
I want to ask you a very important question.
Are you GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY every time you meet a
beautiful woman?
Do you ever put on a mask and change your personality around
an attractive woman or anyone else?
Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you
and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?
Do you ever try to prove to people how “cool” or “smart” you
are?
Well, if you are the first thing I want you to do is STOP!
It’s IDIOTIC behavior.
And with that here is your first tip:
If you want to be REALLY successful with beautiful women,
you need to treat them like anyone else.
You need to realize that there is no difference between that
hot 22 year old than there was when she was an overweight 12
year old with glasses and braces.
Get it?
If you really want to stand out to a woman you CAN’T let the
pressure to be Mr. Cool fu*k with your personality.
How would you treat this “hot” girl if she suddenly gained
100 pounds?...
That’s what I’m talking about.
My point is that if you want to be successful with women,
you need to treat them the same regardless of looks.
She’s only “hot” when you decide that she is... plus your
definition of “hot” is some else’s ugly… if you really want
to get through to her don’t address her as “the hot girl”
but as another person.
Let me give you an example.
If you met Will Ferrell how would you address him?
How would you treat him if you knew him as a celebrity and praise him…
Would you treat him any differently than if you met him at
McDonalds and struck up a conversation having no idea who he
was?
When you’re talking to a girl don’t treat her for the
persona you’ve given her… don't treat her with %26quot;celebrity%26quot; status.
just treat her like another person.
You’ve been ****** up by this idea of teachers, bosses,
parents and this idea of a social “ladder” and believing
that one human life is better than another one.
Would you treat Tom Brady any differently if he was a bum
on the street than “Quarterback of the New England
Patriots”?
I think you get the idea.
YOU NEED TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
You can’t let how rich, handsome, powerful or famous someone
is cause you to treat them ANY differently. They’re not
magically blessed – they’re no better or worse than anyone
else… they’re just humans going through their lives like
anyone else.
Looking at life this way will benefit you because once you
accept that you’re equal to everyone else, you will no
longer look to those who are “better” than you for
validation.
An example being that you realize you no longer need to try
to impress a girl just because she’s “hot”.
The reason this is so powerful is because when you think this way then you’re no longer putting others in control of your emotions and
you're no longer allowing others to have control of or your
fate… you don’t have control over anyone but yourself and
once you accept control of your life, that you’re going
to answer to NO ONE and that you’re NOT going to let anyone
else have ANY effect on your behavior your life will start
getting under your control and women will find you
incredibly attractive.
When you do your own thinking with NO concern for what anyone
else thinks, you also put yourself on TOP of the social
ladder. You don't need anyone else's approval and expect others to answer to YOU.
... Women perceive that you’re comfortable with who you are (and find it VERY attractive).
Another benefit to this is that it shows others you have
options in your life… if you acting needy, nervous or afraid
about a woman's reaction what do you think she assumes about you?
... That YOU’RE DESPRATE and you don’t have options so you’re
desperate to get her.
Do you think she wants a needy, insecure guy?
HELL NO!
She wants a confident man who’s in control and knows what
he’s doing.
She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it
with no excuses. A man who she can feel safe and protected with.
If you want an example of what I’m talking about think about
this.
Think of the most gorgeous girl you know.
Now, If Brad Pitt came up to her what do you think he would
do?
Do you think he would be nervous and say, “hey… so what’s
your name? What are you doing here? I was wondering if I
could talk to you” and sit around and FORCE boring
conversation with her because he NEEDED her to like him?
... do you think he'd waste months or even just HOURS trying
to play it cool and flirt with her hoping she'd be attracted
to him?
Could you see Brad Pitt trying to force small talk with a
woman and put himself BELOW a woman from the moment he
starts talking to her?
I doubt it.
He would walk in confidently, probably knowing he has
T
Ladies what's your opinion on this?
Wo, you give quite good advice. That is exactly what every women looks for...
Ladies what's your opinion on this?
uhh.. sorry too much to read..:)
why, you hint and binge for uncommon yet extremely general answers.
Indeed. men, women, we are all human and have flaws. Treat everyone as a individual worth his or her own attempts.
i totally agree
this is just what woman look for in men(:
Honestly, this sounds like that pick up artist garbage.
You're still playing the game. If a piggish, ugly bum of a man %26quot;called me out%26quot;, I would hand out a good dose of snark and make sure everyone around heard.
tldr
Getting women is not this complicated. Guys over think this whole process way too often. Getting women is only complicated when you are trying to get a woman that you shouldn't be interested in(as in a woman that has no natural interest in you).
wow i am so happy to hear a man say that!! if half the boys out there were like that they would be happier!! you will absolutley have no trouble getting girls in the future!!!
I wish more people would realize this. see, this is why i made this one question about %26quot;describe your dream girl%26quot; most of the guys talked all about the physical stuff, like 85% wanted a girl that was freakin 5%26quot;8 and 110 lbs. that just seems freaking anorexic to me and freakishly tall. i mean i have some standards to who i would date but for goodness sake im not saying how tall he should be or his weight. i've liked guys that were the hottest ever because i love their personality and how they treated me. some guys cant understand the same concept. = (
Somethings I agree with. I agree that a man should be confident. However, I have said no to many cocky men, because arrogance is a huge turn off. So it's a fine line. It says not to complement on looks, but when my boyfriend tells me that I look beautiful, I am on cloud nine.
Something I do on dates is I see how the man I am with treats the waitstaff or the cashier at the movie theater. If he treats them in a kind, friendly manner, it says loads about him personally. If he doesn't, or if he's snappy and treats them inferior manner, their usually isn't a second date.
The article says %26quot;Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?%26quot; Besides spelling %26quot;Extremely%26quot; incorrectly, I think there are some flaws in this logic. I know my gal friends and myself all appreciate when I guy does most of the work getting things started, but in the end, we like being the ones who ultimately decide.
Anywho, hope that helps some.
Girls what's your opinion on this?
“The Most Dangerous Mistake YOU Probably Make With Women”
I want to ask you a very important question.
Are you GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY every time you meet a
beautiful woman?
Do you ever put on a mask and change your personality around
an attractive woman or anyone else?
Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you
and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?
Do you ever try to prove to people how “cool” or “smart” you
are?
Well, if you are the first thing I want you to do is STOP!
It’s IDIOTIC behavior.
And with that here is your first tip:
If you want to be REALLY successful with beautiful women,
you need to treat them like anyone else.
You need to realize that there is no difference between that
hot 22 year old than there was when she was an overweight 12
year old with glasses and braces.
Get it?
If you really want to stand out to a woman you CAN’T let the
pressure to be Mr. Cool fu*k with your personality.
How would you treat this “hot” girl if she suddenly gained
100 pounds?...
That’s what I’m talking about.
My point is that if you want to be successful with women,
you need to treat them the same regardless of looks.
She’s only “hot” when you decide that she is... plus your
definition of “hot” is some else’s ugly… if you really want
to get through to her don’t address her as “the hot girl”
but as another person.
Let me give you an example.
If you met Will Ferrell how would you address him?
How would you treat him if you knew him as a celebrity and praise him…
Would you treat him any differently than if you met him at
McDonalds and struck up a conversation having no idea who he
was?
When you’re talking to a girl don’t treat her for the
persona you’ve given her… don't treat her with %26quot;celebrity%26quot; status.
just treat her like another person.
You’ve been ****** up by this idea of teachers, bosses,
parents and this idea of a social “ladder” and believing
that one human life is better than another one.
Would you treat Tom Brady any differently if he was a bum
on the street than “Quarterback of the New England
Patriots”?
I think you get the idea.
YOU NEED TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
You can’t let how rich, handsome, powerful or famous someone
is cause you to treat them ANY differently. They’re not
magically blessed – they’re no better or worse than anyone
else… they’re just humans going through their lives like
anyone else.
Looking at life this way will benefit you because once you
accept that you’re equal to everyone else, you will no
longer look to those who are “better” than you for
validation.
An example being that you realize you no longer need to try
to impress a girl just because she’s “hot”.
The reason this is so powerful is because when you think this way then you’re no longer putting others in control of your emotions and
you're no longer allowing others to have control of or your
fate… you don’t have control over anyone but yourself and
once you accept control of your life, that you’re going
to answer to NO ONE and that you’re NOT going to let anyone
else have ANY effect on your behavior your life will start
getting under your control and women will find you
incredibly attractive.
When you do your own thinking with NO concern for what anyone
else thinks, you also put yourself on TOP of the social
ladder. You don't need anyone else's approval and expect others to answer to YOU.
... Women perceive that you’re comfortable with who you are (and find it VERY attractive).
Another benefit to this is that it shows others you have
options in your life… if you acting needy, nervous or afraid
about a woman's reaction what do you think she assumes about you?
... That YOU’RE DESPRATE and you don’t have options so you’re
desperate to get her.
Do you think she wants a needy, insecure guy?
HELL NO!
She wants a confident man who’s in control and knows what
he’s doing.
She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it
with no excuses. A man who she can feel safe and protected with.
If you want an example of what I’m talking about think about
this.
Think of the most gorgeous girl you know.
Now, If Brad Pitt came up to her what do you think he would
do?
Do you think he would be nervous and say, “hey… so what’s
your name? What are you doing here? I was wondering if I
could talk to you” and sit around and FORCE boring
conversation with her because he NEEDED her to like him?
... do you think he'd waste months or even just HOURS trying
to play it cool and flirt with her hoping she'd be attracted
to him?
Could you see Brad Pitt trying to force small talk with a
woman and put himself BELOW a woman from the moment he
starts talking to her?
I doubt it.
He would walk in confidently, probably knowing he has
Girls what's your opinion on this?
a lot of girls think this way i'm sure i would too, but this is not going to change any ones mind, like YOU wouldn't treat any one differently because of there popularity or status. YOU try it, don't tell girls to STOP it everyone does this even you, you may be against it, but i doubt you follow it to the point as your trying to yell at us for doing, you try acting the same way with your friends (all goofy and strange) then go to a girl you like (and act the same way) it doesn't work out. The point i'm saying is that its a good thought, but its impossible to follow through. I would not act like an idiot (like when i'm at a sleepover with my friends) and then act like an idiot towards a guy i like, it just doesn't work that way.
so, you try it before putting it on yahoo answers, its not even much of an asking opinion thing, its stop it right now your being stupid, your telling them what to think...
PS i do treat people with a good personality with respect, no matter how drop-dead gorgeous they are.
Girls what's your opinion on this?
I got a little frustrated while reading this, thanks for the ten points and sorry for yelling at you even though it wasn't your thoughts, but you should've wrote an additional detail saying it wasn't your thoughts.
i didnt even read all of this, cuz it was weird.
but wow...get a notebook or something?!
This isn't a question it's a rant.
?????
=]
%26lt;3
this is way to long to read ! i got bored not even half way through
Blog!
I know, but idk
sorry
I think this is very true. # 1 men and woman should be confident we should all feel good about ourselves. # 2 Men should not bow down and kiss the a** of a woman who is acting like a stuck up bi***. Nor should woman do this for men. Were only as pretty as we act. Beauty is skin deep. I believe it's much more attractive when a good looking woman presents her self in a well mannered way.
you must have had your heart broke recently. if that is the case don't fret you are human. as a woman let me tell you i have had my heart broken many times. I personally choose who i am going to be with or around based on how i feel about the person (S). My husband has never been %26quot;fake with me or told me that something looks good when it don't%26quot;. He also sticks to his opinions and beliefs. so in a sense you are right when you say be yourself and don't give %26quot;GoD%26quot; status to a potential mate just because they have a good appearance or have lots of money.
I want to ask you a very important question.
Are you GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY every time you meet a
beautiful woman?
Do you ever put on a mask and change your personality around
an attractive woman or anyone else?
Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you
and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?
Do you ever try to prove to people how “cool” or “smart” you
are?
Well, if you are the first thing I want you to do is STOP!
It’s IDIOTIC behavior.
And with that here is your first tip:
If you want to be REALLY successful with beautiful women,
you need to treat them like anyone else.
You need to realize that there is no difference between that
hot 22 year old than there was when she was an overweight 12
year old with glasses and braces.
Get it?
If you really want to stand out to a woman you CAN’T let the
pressure to be Mr. Cool fu*k with your personality.
How would you treat this “hot” girl if she suddenly gained
100 pounds?...
That’s what I’m talking about.
My point is that if you want to be successful with women,
you need to treat them the same regardless of looks.
She’s only “hot” when you decide that she is... plus your
definition of “hot” is some else’s ugly… if you really want
to get through to her don’t address her as “the hot girl”
but as another person.
Let me give you an example.
If you met Will Ferrell how would you address him?
How would you treat him if you knew him as a celebrity and praise him…
Would you treat him any differently than if you met him at
McDonalds and struck up a conversation having no idea who he
was?
When you’re talking to a girl don’t treat her for the
persona you’ve given her… don't treat her with %26quot;celebrity%26quot; status.
just treat her like another person.
You’ve been ****** up by this idea of teachers, bosses,
parents and this idea of a social “ladder” and believing
that one human life is better than another one.
Would you treat Tom Brady any differently if he was a bum
on the street than “Quarterback of the New England
Patriots”?
I think you get the idea.
YOU NEED TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
You can’t let how rich, handsome, powerful or famous someone
is cause you to treat them ANY differently. They’re not
magically blessed – they’re no better or worse than anyone
else… they’re just humans going through their lives like
anyone else.
Looking at life this way will benefit you because once you
accept that you’re equal to everyone else, you will no
longer look to those who are “better” than you for
validation.
An example being that you realize you no longer need to try
to impress a girl just because she’s “hot”.
The reason this is so powerful is because when you think this way then you’re no longer putting others in control of your emotions and
you're no longer allowing others to have control of or your
fate… you don’t have control over anyone but yourself and
once you accept control of your life, that you’re going
to answer to NO ONE and that you’re NOT going to let anyone
else have ANY effect on your behavior your life will start
getting under your control and women will find you
incredibly attractive.
When you do your own thinking with NO concern for what anyone
else thinks, you also put yourself on TOP of the social
ladder. You don't need anyone else's approval and expect others to answer to YOU.
... Women perceive that you’re comfortable with who you are (and find it VERY attractive).
Another benefit to this is that it shows others you have
options in your life… if you acting needy, nervous or afraid
about a woman's reaction what do you think she assumes about you?
... That YOU’RE DESPRATE and you don’t have options so you’re
desperate to get her.
Do you think she wants a needy, insecure guy?
HELL NO!
She wants a confident man who’s in control and knows what
he’s doing.
She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it
with no excuses. A man who she can feel safe and protected with.
If you want an example of what I’m talking about think about
this.
Think of the most gorgeous girl you know.
Now, If Brad Pitt came up to her what do you think he would
do?
Do you think he would be nervous and say, “hey… so what’s
your name? What are you doing here? I was wondering if I
could talk to you” and sit around and FORCE boring
conversation with her because he NEEDED her to like him?
... do you think he'd waste months or even just HOURS trying
to play it cool and flirt with her hoping she'd be attracted
to him?
Could you see Brad Pitt trying to force small talk with a
woman and put himself BELOW a woman from the moment he
starts talking to her?
I doubt it.
He would walk in confidently, probably knowing he has
Girls what's your opinion on this?
a lot of girls think this way i'm sure i would too, but this is not going to change any ones mind, like YOU wouldn't treat any one differently because of there popularity or status. YOU try it, don't tell girls to STOP it everyone does this even you, you may be against it, but i doubt you follow it to the point as your trying to yell at us for doing, you try acting the same way with your friends (all goofy and strange) then go to a girl you like (and act the same way) it doesn't work out. The point i'm saying is that its a good thought, but its impossible to follow through. I would not act like an idiot (like when i'm at a sleepover with my friends) and then act like an idiot towards a guy i like, it just doesn't work that way.
so, you try it before putting it on yahoo answers, its not even much of an asking opinion thing, its stop it right now your being stupid, your telling them what to think...
PS i do treat people with a good personality with respect, no matter how drop-dead gorgeous they are.
Girls what's your opinion on this?
I got a little frustrated while reading this, thanks for the ten points and sorry for yelling at you even though it wasn't your thoughts, but you should've wrote an additional detail saying it wasn't your thoughts.
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i didnt even read all of this, cuz it was weird.
but wow...get a notebook or something?!
This isn't a question it's a rant.
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this is way to long to read ! i got bored not even half way through
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I know, but idk
sorry
I think this is very true. # 1 men and woman should be confident we should all feel good about ourselves. # 2 Men should not bow down and kiss the a** of a woman who is acting like a stuck up bi***. Nor should woman do this for men. Were only as pretty as we act. Beauty is skin deep. I believe it's much more attractive when a good looking woman presents her self in a well mannered way.
you must have had your heart broke recently. if that is the case don't fret you are human. as a woman let me tell you i have had my heart broken many times. I personally choose who i am going to be with or around based on how i feel about the person (S). My husband has never been %26quot;fake with me or told me that something looks good when it don't%26quot;. He also sticks to his opinions and beliefs. so in a sense you are right when you say be yourself and don't give %26quot;GoD%26quot; status to a potential mate just because they have a good appearance or have lots of money.
Would you become like a bit of a differant person if you were forced to sleep on the streets?
why and how so for this?
how long would it take for you to begin to change your personality and outlook?
please explain and describe.
Would you become like a bit of a differant person if you were forced to sleep on the streets?
It's different, not ''differant''. I let you off in your other question.
Would you become like a bit of a differant person if you were forced to sleep on the streets?
I'd just go to the shelter.
if you are gonna ask a bunch of different questions, learn to spell it please.
I doubt it.
I'd probably just go back to being a materialistic person again after my homeless stint.
Wouldnt everyone become different?
Your personality would take a nose dive - i slept on the street all night for a gig once,and i wasn't in the best of moods.
Your outlook is going to become pretty bleak,i'd give it a day seriously no more before things start to change.
It's so bad,i'm seriously never doing it again - sleeping on the pavement when it's raining and freezing wasn't one of my better ideas.
yep...I would walk around the park clubbing pigeons for foodhow to deal with a cheating spouse valuable advice
how long would it take for you to begin to change your personality and outlook?
please explain and describe.
Would you become like a bit of a differant person if you were forced to sleep on the streets?
It's different, not ''differant''. I let you off in your other question.
Would you become like a bit of a differant person if you were forced to sleep on the streets?
I'd just go to the shelter.
if you are gonna ask a bunch of different questions, learn to spell it please.
I doubt it.
I'd probably just go back to being a materialistic person again after my homeless stint.
Wouldnt everyone become different?
Your personality would take a nose dive - i slept on the street all night for a gig once,and i wasn't in the best of moods.
Your outlook is going to become pretty bleak,i'd give it a day seriously no more before things start to change.
It's so bad,i'm seriously never doing it again - sleeping on the pavement when it's raining and freezing wasn't one of my better ideas.
yep...I would walk around the park clubbing pigeons for food
How Did A C&C Cage Change Your Guinea Pigs Life?
Please explain because I need it as my persuasion plan to let my parents let me get 1.
Please explain how a c%26amp;c cage changed your guinea pigs life, attitude %26amp; personality!
thnxs!
How Did A C%26amp;C Cage Change Your Guinea Pigs Life?
We just built my guinea's C%26amp;C cage a week ago today, but it has made a big improvement. He's much happier. C%26amp;C cages are bigger than most store bought, so he has much more room to run. He now popcorns like crazy. Also you can always add on to a C%26amp;C cage, I plan on adding a smaller second level as a food area so he'll have the entire lower level to just run. Plus you can make it bigger if you ever get more pigs.
Also C%26amp;C cages are cheaper than a large store bought. And if you use towels and fleece or something for bedding then it is cheaper to clean, and easier I think.
Good luck! Parents can be so difficult.lol
How Did A C%26amp;C Cage Change Your Guinea Pigs Life?
It won't change it's life, attitude and personality...
It will just change where it lives, sort of like moving into a new home but much less hassle and no new neighbours or routines etc.
I've never used one but I found these online:
Benefits of MORE SPACE
Exercise in General
The health benefit of exercise for guinea pigs is significant. Like humans, overweight guinea pigs have a higher tendency toward health problems, including heart disease, diabetes, bladder infections, respiratory problems, bumblefoot, and more.
Adult males can develop a condition called impaction -- a loss of muscle tone in the anal area, causing their droppings to get 'backed up' and require periodic cleaning by their guardians. A large cage with ample room for exercise can help keep your guinea pig toned and fit.
Adult females tend to put on weight in their belly as they get older. It's more difficult to find and diagnose ovarian cysts and other related problems in females when they are overweight.
Exercise on Their Schedule
Not yours. Even if you provide an ample amount of floor time every day, your guinea pigs need to be able to exercise and explore on their own body clocks. Guinea pig activity tends to be an hour %26quot;on%26quot; and an hour %26quot;off.%26quot; Many are particularly active in the morning and evening -- not necessarily at times that are convenient for you. If they have a large enough cage, they can exercise whenever they choose.
Stimulation
Like people, guinea pigs get bored living in the same old small cage hour after hour, day after day, year after year with nothing much to do. It would be like 'being sent to your room' forever, only your room is the size of a walk-in closet and that becomes your life. You have to entertain yourself, eat, sleep, and 'go to the bathroom' all in that small space -- until you die. Even if you are hauled out and allowed to 'play' with some other species periodically, it's a mind-numbing, dreary existence.
Keeping the Peace
If you have two or more non-breeding or same-sex guinea pigs (as you should, since they are social animals), it helps keep them happy with each other if they have enough room to run and play and to get away from each other when they choose.
Easier to Clean
Believe it or not, a larger cage is much easier to clean and keep clean than the smaller pet store or commercial cages. You can read other people's experiences in the Testimonials and find out more about how to clean the cage on the cleaning page. And an easier to clean cage for you means you'll love your guinea pigs that much more over the years.
More Fun for You
Happy guinea pigs are more entertaining and well-adjusted guinea pigs. Healthy guinea pigs means fewer vet visits, worries, and bills. Easy-to-maintain guinea pigs means a happier relationship with your animals. You'll spend less time cleaning and more time enjoying them and your life, especially knowing they are doing so well and you are doing the right thing by them.
The guinea pigs are a lot happier!
it didn't. just go to petco and buy a cage
Please explain how a c%26amp;c cage changed your guinea pigs life, attitude %26amp; personality!
thnxs!
How Did A C%26amp;C Cage Change Your Guinea Pigs Life?
We just built my guinea's C%26amp;C cage a week ago today, but it has made a big improvement. He's much happier. C%26amp;C cages are bigger than most store bought, so he has much more room to run. He now popcorns like crazy. Also you can always add on to a C%26amp;C cage, I plan on adding a smaller second level as a food area so he'll have the entire lower level to just run. Plus you can make it bigger if you ever get more pigs.
Also C%26amp;C cages are cheaper than a large store bought. And if you use towels and fleece or something for bedding then it is cheaper to clean, and easier I think.
Good luck! Parents can be so difficult.lol
How Did A C%26amp;C Cage Change Your Guinea Pigs Life?
It won't change it's life, attitude and personality...
It will just change where it lives, sort of like moving into a new home but much less hassle and no new neighbours or routines etc.
I've never used one but I found these online:
Benefits of MORE SPACE
Exercise in General
The health benefit of exercise for guinea pigs is significant. Like humans, overweight guinea pigs have a higher tendency toward health problems, including heart disease, diabetes, bladder infections, respiratory problems, bumblefoot, and more.
Adult males can develop a condition called impaction -- a loss of muscle tone in the anal area, causing their droppings to get 'backed up' and require periodic cleaning by their guardians. A large cage with ample room for exercise can help keep your guinea pig toned and fit.
Adult females tend to put on weight in their belly as they get older. It's more difficult to find and diagnose ovarian cysts and other related problems in females when they are overweight.
Exercise on Their Schedule
Not yours. Even if you provide an ample amount of floor time every day, your guinea pigs need to be able to exercise and explore on their own body clocks. Guinea pig activity tends to be an hour %26quot;on%26quot; and an hour %26quot;off.%26quot; Many are particularly active in the morning and evening -- not necessarily at times that are convenient for you. If they have a large enough cage, they can exercise whenever they choose.
Stimulation
Like people, guinea pigs get bored living in the same old small cage hour after hour, day after day, year after year with nothing much to do. It would be like 'being sent to your room' forever, only your room is the size of a walk-in closet and that becomes your life. You have to entertain yourself, eat, sleep, and 'go to the bathroom' all in that small space -- until you die. Even if you are hauled out and allowed to 'play' with some other species periodically, it's a mind-numbing, dreary existence.
Keeping the Peace
If you have two or more non-breeding or same-sex guinea pigs (as you should, since they are social animals), it helps keep them happy with each other if they have enough room to run and play and to get away from each other when they choose.
Easier to Clean
Believe it or not, a larger cage is much easier to clean and keep clean than the smaller pet store or commercial cages. You can read other people's experiences in the Testimonials and find out more about how to clean the cage on the cleaning page. And an easier to clean cage for you means you'll love your guinea pigs that much more over the years.
More Fun for You
Happy guinea pigs are more entertaining and well-adjusted guinea pigs. Healthy guinea pigs means fewer vet visits, worries, and bills. Easy-to-maintain guinea pigs means a happier relationship with your animals. You'll spend less time cleaning and more time enjoying them and your life, especially knowing they are doing so well and you are doing the right thing by them.
The guinea pigs are a lot happier!
it didn't. just go to petco and buy a cage
Did you change after high school?
As in,
After high school, did your personality somehow change a little?
Did your social life change?
Did you move away?
Did you change your appearance a lot?
Were you once really shy and now you're super outgoing?
HOW HAVE YOU CHANGED?
Do you know anyone who has changed?
I'm just curious because I am a freshman in high school and I'd just like to know if most people change after graduating high school :)
Did you change after high school?
I got more confidant.
I now have the FU attitude. If you don't like me for who I am, then FU!
Did you change after high school?
yeah, i fcked up my school days and regretted it pretty soon after i left so grew up a bit.
Yeah. If I were in high school as I am now, I think I would've been cooler than I was.
I'm stilla freshie.
I have changed immensely since high school. I moved away, gained new interests, and have new friends.
actually, i changed a lot after elementary %26amp; junior high. i used to be a quiet %26amp; shy kid. now, im a loud %26amp; outgoing type of girl :D
i cant really answer that cause im a freshman too.
CLASS OF 2013!!!!
but i do know some people who did change in high school.
Yeah. High school was a big game and a big joke. I started having a real life and real friends after that.
still in high school
Yes, I did. I left high school last year and ever since then i have matured a hell of a lot and see things differently. I guess my social life has changed too. Although my friends haven't changed at all! Kinda wierd
Hello!
I'm also a freshman and I just want to say that I have changed already so much from 8th grade to 9th.
My 8th was the hardest year of mile life. Both emotionally, educationally and physically. I was really able to think about things and put together a rationale for my life.
I do expect more change after high school. Good question. I'm interested in knowing about this too.
Yea, I've become very quiet and less social. I'm not as active as I used to be and I'm only 18.
Yes i changed a lot. Im a lot more loud and outgoing. And i cant shutup
I've changed more in some ways than others. I'll tell you straight off that I miss high school like none other. Knowing what I do now, I would've done everything differently.
Social life - hasn't changed much. I don't hang out with the same people.
I've since moved to a larger town, but miss the smaller one that I used to live in.
Apperance has not changed, unfortunately.
Yes, and it was time to get some new clothes.
Ya-that's when my %26quot;wild days%26quot; begun...
im still in h.s.
yeah it did, uses to like what everyone liked and follow what everyone else followed like music, style etc, but after high school I stop caring about all that
A lot of people say they did that I know. I hope I do because I absolutely HATE high school. I still have another year left. =[
My social life has been about the same, I was very reserved only having a few friends, and not dating/talking to any guys in the highschool I went to.
I didn't move away yet.
I did change my appearance from time to time, and still do.
I wasn't really shy just didn't like a lot of ppl and kept to myself. I am a little more outspoken and outgoing but not an extreme difference.
My personality has changed a little bit, learning more about myself. Just stopped worrying about where everyone is in life, and their social status and focusing on mine. I know a few people who have changed.
Every one changes after highschool. And the change is probably for the best
After high school, did your personality somehow change a little?
Did your social life change?
Did you move away?
Did you change your appearance a lot?
Were you once really shy and now you're super outgoing?
HOW HAVE YOU CHANGED?
Do you know anyone who has changed?
I'm just curious because I am a freshman in high school and I'd just like to know if most people change after graduating high school :)
Did you change after high school?
I got more confidant.
I now have the FU attitude. If you don't like me for who I am, then FU!
Did you change after high school?
yeah, i fcked up my school days and regretted it pretty soon after i left so grew up a bit.
Yeah. If I were in high school as I am now, I think I would've been cooler than I was.
I'm stilla freshie.
I have changed immensely since high school. I moved away, gained new interests, and have new friends.
actually, i changed a lot after elementary %26amp; junior high. i used to be a quiet %26amp; shy kid. now, im a loud %26amp; outgoing type of girl :D
i cant really answer that cause im a freshman too.
CLASS OF 2013!!!!
but i do know some people who did change in high school.
Yeah. High school was a big game and a big joke. I started having a real life and real friends after that.
still in high school
Yes, I did. I left high school last year and ever since then i have matured a hell of a lot and see things differently. I guess my social life has changed too. Although my friends haven't changed at all! Kinda wierd
Hello!
I'm also a freshman and I just want to say that I have changed already so much from 8th grade to 9th.
My 8th was the hardest year of mile life. Both emotionally, educationally and physically. I was really able to think about things and put together a rationale for my life.
I do expect more change after high school. Good question. I'm interested in knowing about this too.
Yea, I've become very quiet and less social. I'm not as active as I used to be and I'm only 18.
Yes i changed a lot. Im a lot more loud and outgoing. And i cant shutup
I've changed more in some ways than others. I'll tell you straight off that I miss high school like none other. Knowing what I do now, I would've done everything differently.
Social life - hasn't changed much. I don't hang out with the same people.
I've since moved to a larger town, but miss the smaller one that I used to live in.
Apperance has not changed, unfortunately.
Yes, and it was time to get some new clothes.
Ya-that's when my %26quot;wild days%26quot; begun...
im still in h.s.
yeah it did, uses to like what everyone liked and follow what everyone else followed like music, style etc, but after high school I stop caring about all that
A lot of people say they did that I know. I hope I do because I absolutely HATE high school. I still have another year left. =[
My social life has been about the same, I was very reserved only having a few friends, and not dating/talking to any guys in the highschool I went to.
I didn't move away yet.
I did change my appearance from time to time, and still do.
I wasn't really shy just didn't like a lot of ppl and kept to myself. I am a little more outspoken and outgoing but not an extreme difference.
My personality has changed a little bit, learning more about myself. Just stopped worrying about where everyone is in life, and their social status and focusing on mine. I know a few people who have changed.
Every one changes after highschool. And the change is probably for the best
What are some bad reactions to long term use of xanax, and addiction?
How does it change you? Does it numb your emotions, or change your personality. My friend is pretty much addicted, so I want to know what to look for and when I should worry.
What are some bad reactions to long term use of xanax, and addiction?
Lets see,it depends on each and every person,but the effects that are mirrored in most are relavant to those on meth,that being non stop talking,paranoia,constant forgetfullness.It does numb peoples emotions,that is one big reason why they take it usually,it is kind of an amnesia pill,if you will.
What are some bad reactions to long term use of xanax, and addiction?
Thank you hun,and i really like your name ;)
you should have started worrying when you found out that she had an addiction.
well it gets to where you start taking more then your dosage your doctor prescribes and then when you are not taking them your angry and sad and very nervous if u think she is addicted u really might wanna try and get her some help good luck
What are some bad reactions to long term use of xanax, and addiction?
Lets see,it depends on each and every person,but the effects that are mirrored in most are relavant to those on meth,that being non stop talking,paranoia,constant forgetfullness.It does numb peoples emotions,that is one big reason why they take it usually,it is kind of an amnesia pill,if you will.
What are some bad reactions to long term use of xanax, and addiction?
Thank you hun,and i really like your name ;)
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you should have started worrying when you found out that she had an addiction.
well it gets to where you start taking more then your dosage your doctor prescribes and then when you are not taking them your angry and sad and very nervous if u think she is addicted u really might wanna try and get her some help good luck
What is it like to work as an embalmer, mortician, and funeral director?
Is there fun involved at all? How is the pay? the benefits? What is it like to sleep at night or work alone? Has or does working in this capacity change your personality at all?
What is it like to work as an embalmer, mortician, and funeral director?
One of my uncles is a funeral director. You would never know he had that job. He drives a big SUV to pick up dead bodies in, sometimes he has to pick up bodies w/ the whole family in the car (as in his 3 girls and wife) I think you get used to the death. He is a very normal happy person. I think he likes his job. He has a very mellow personality and is very good with the families that have just lost a loved one. The job must pay well because he has a very nice home. I've known my uncle since he was a teenager and he seems like the same guy to me 27 years later. My bf jokes since my uncle is Italian, that he is in the mafia picking up stiffs....of course not true, but funny.
What is it like to work as an embalmer, mortician, and funeral director?
i imagine you would have to emotionally die or develop some sort of sick sense of humor
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Sounds like fun. Seriously.
my father did this for about a year - long ago.
it made him much more respectful of funerals, the dead, and the loved ones still living.
What is it like to work as an embalmer, mortician, and funeral director?
One of my uncles is a funeral director. You would never know he had that job. He drives a big SUV to pick up dead bodies in, sometimes he has to pick up bodies w/ the whole family in the car (as in his 3 girls and wife) I think you get used to the death. He is a very normal happy person. I think he likes his job. He has a very mellow personality and is very good with the families that have just lost a loved one. The job must pay well because he has a very nice home. I've known my uncle since he was a teenager and he seems like the same guy to me 27 years later. My bf jokes since my uncle is Italian, that he is in the mafia picking up stiffs....of course not true, but funny.
What is it like to work as an embalmer, mortician, and funeral director?
i imagine you would have to emotionally die or develop some sort of sick sense of humor
Quiet
Sounds like fun. Seriously.
my father did this for about a year - long ago.
it made him much more respectful of funerals, the dead, and the loved ones still living.
What are guidelines for being polite?
I find that sometimes my responses and inquires offend people, how can you change your personality? I am not sure I even want to change, I have always been a little weird.
I am comfortable with myself, but people always try to change me, is that right?
What are guidelines for being polite?
Nobody should have to change their personality for the sake of others. Although sometimes it is alright to put on just the tiniest filter just to make sure you don't totally scar a person. You don't want to drive them into depression by saying something completely harsh and you don't want to be shunned for saying something that people find so they can't stand the sight of you. Not that it would happen though...
Or maybe you should just find a crowd of people who understand you better.
It's good that you are able to speak your mind though. Power to ya.
What are guidelines for being polite?
When in doubt, say nothing. Confucius once said, %26quot;The Wise Man listens twice as much as he speaks.%26quot;
I have found that to be very useful in communication.
no one can change you but you and they shouldn't try to. if you are unsure of what to say then you should maybe just say nothing at all if there is a possibility that you will say something offensive. you should also never ask people personal questions as those are typically very offensive.
You are not responsible for the actions or emotions of others, just your own. As long as you approach people with tolerance and respect, you have done your part.
Everyone is weird in some way, shape or form, by the way. Some of us just fly our freak flag a little higher than others. Be yourself, and stand in your own power and truth.
we all at some time or another try to change someone....i think we don't always realize it or mean to. I seem to offend people a lot more than I think I should as well.....it is aggravating and frustrating to be totally perceived wrong. I am a nice and happy person. People get offended for so many different and strange reasons. Just do your best, and try to learn from your mistakes, and you will be doing the right thing.
Talk to people the way you want other to talk to you. That's what I do, because there is no guidelines for being polite. Everybody is different, what is OK for a clerk at Walmart maynot be OK for a professor at Harvard so just be yourself. You offend people because you probably hang out with the wrong type of people. Find those that fit your personality, and avoid those that you have to change to get along with....nail polish swimwea web server software
I am comfortable with myself, but people always try to change me, is that right?
What are guidelines for being polite?
Nobody should have to change their personality for the sake of others. Although sometimes it is alright to put on just the tiniest filter just to make sure you don't totally scar a person. You don't want to drive them into depression by saying something completely harsh and you don't want to be shunned for saying something that people find so they can't stand the sight of you. Not that it would happen though...
Or maybe you should just find a crowd of people who understand you better.
It's good that you are able to speak your mind though. Power to ya.
What are guidelines for being polite?
When in doubt, say nothing. Confucius once said, %26quot;The Wise Man listens twice as much as he speaks.%26quot;
I have found that to be very useful in communication.
no one can change you but you and they shouldn't try to. if you are unsure of what to say then you should maybe just say nothing at all if there is a possibility that you will say something offensive. you should also never ask people personal questions as those are typically very offensive.
You are not responsible for the actions or emotions of others, just your own. As long as you approach people with tolerance and respect, you have done your part.
Everyone is weird in some way, shape or form, by the way. Some of us just fly our freak flag a little higher than others. Be yourself, and stand in your own power and truth.
we all at some time or another try to change someone....i think we don't always realize it or mean to. I seem to offend people a lot more than I think I should as well.....it is aggravating and frustrating to be totally perceived wrong. I am a nice and happy person. People get offended for so many different and strange reasons. Just do your best, and try to learn from your mistakes, and you will be doing the right thing.
Talk to people the way you want other to talk to you. That's what I do, because there is no guidelines for being polite. Everybody is different, what is OK for a clerk at Walmart maynot be OK for a professor at Harvard so just be yourself. You offend people because you probably hang out with the wrong type of people. Find those that fit your personality, and avoid those that you have to change to get along with....
How can I stop being so negative?
I constantly complain and feel I need to gossip and put others down. I am always saying things I shouldn't. You will say think positive, but how do you do that? My mother is a very negative person and I don't want to be that way anymore. Please, I just wish I could snap my fingers and change, but it is so hard to change your personality.
How can I stop being so negative?
Your last sentence is the most import...
%26quot;but it is so hard to change your personality%26quot; We all would like to have that Genie power of snapping out fingers...Not gonna happen.
However, if you want to change badly enough and are willing to work hard, you can do it. I did and other before me and after me have.
Think about the pleasant, nice things in life. Make a list ..count you blessings. Surround yourself with positive people. Do not read the news.....just kidding, even though the new is based on gore and negativism.
Quit gossiping and hanging around those that do. Pick positive friends. Oops I said that. I must think that is an important one.
Listen to positive music, read positive books and stories.
Remember you got the way you are over a great number of years. Change is not an overnight event. If you are willing you can do it. Take little steps and respect yourself for your courage and every instance when you chose positive or negative, a smile instead of a frown.
How can I stop being so negative?
focus on the good things in your life
if its really that hard see a nuero MD they have al ways of seeing whats really going on
If you know the trait of positives then you can change from being a negative person.
You have to reprogram your mind.
Your mind is like a computer.
Garbage in..garbage out
Search on Yahoo
%26quot;Positive Affirmations%26quot; ( with the quotes around both words)
and do them daily..til they take root. Then do more.
Remember: YOU ARE what you think.
If you want to be down, youre wish is your command.
Youre like a magnet and what you think is what is attracted to you.
Really get into seeing what a great opportunity this is for you, and you'll get excited about it.
Rent the movie %26quot; The Secret%26quot;
PS. Dont let your mind say %26quot; youre just lying to yourself%26quot; thats part of your negative nature. Say I am turning into a great new person..shut up.
try to find the bright side of things. Like, yes this is a horrible situation, but its ok because... then u search for a positive. Some ppl find it quickly, others don't. Also, it helps to have a little mental filter in your mind, to keep you from saying things u shouldn't. that's prolly the hardest, i'm still trying to work on mine, cuz i usually say the first thing that comes to my mind, a third of the time i don't even think about it. Anyways, as for the putting others down. you need to find your own confidence, and not a the expense of other's feelings. Cuz, when you do that, it still leaves u empty inside, doesn't it? You have to look inside of yourself and find things you are good at. Leave the little people alone. ^_^ good luck changing... it isn't an instant thing btw it takes time, like EVERYTHING else. *sighs*
I can tell you that being around someone who is negative and complains and gossips and puts other down is exhausting. I stopped going into the teacher's lounge one semester because when I went I felt so down and upset because they sucked me into feeling like they did. When I found somewhere else to go, I could face my day as it came, the bad and the good.
All you can do is to bite your tongue when you start to say something negative. You can stay away from the people you gossip with. You have to listen to yourself and hear what you are saying. You don't have to get all positive and happy, just stop being all negative and complaining.
If you are a news junkie, stop watching for a few days. That'll brighten your mood. When your mother starts talking negatively, just go into another room. You don't have to be her. Try reading some funny comics or a cheerful book. Look around your room and find one thing you really like about it. Don't put yourself down. You've got to listen to the messages that you are giving yourself and try to stop them at least some of the time.
Remember, first you behave and then you become. You can stop being a gossip by not telling or listening to gossip. Soon, it will be automatic. You can stop blurting out things you say by thinking for a second before you start or stopping yourself in the middle if you catch yourself.
You're already on your way by addressing the issue. Change may not happen overnight, but it will when you stay on it. Some say that people never change, but they do if they want to. And life changes drastically and beautifully when you realize the amazing benefits of changing how you see and do things.
You're right it is hard to change. You must work hard at it to make it work. My Mother has a way of being negative, so I know how it is. When I find myself being negative I focus on anything that makes me happy. Then I find the good in the situation. There is good in everything. Instead of gossiping try to talk about your favorite book or t.v. show. Things like that so you have a better topic to share with others. Hope this will help you. Don't worry if it takes awhile, I still slip up. No one is perfect, so smile and do your best.
How can I stop being so negative?
Your last sentence is the most import...
%26quot;but it is so hard to change your personality%26quot; We all would like to have that Genie power of snapping out fingers...Not gonna happen.
However, if you want to change badly enough and are willing to work hard, you can do it. I did and other before me and after me have.
Think about the pleasant, nice things in life. Make a list ..count you blessings. Surround yourself with positive people. Do not read the news.....just kidding, even though the new is based on gore and negativism.
Quit gossiping and hanging around those that do. Pick positive friends. Oops I said that. I must think that is an important one.
Listen to positive music, read positive books and stories.
Remember you got the way you are over a great number of years. Change is not an overnight event. If you are willing you can do it. Take little steps and respect yourself for your courage and every instance when you chose positive or negative, a smile instead of a frown.
How can I stop being so negative?
focus on the good things in your life
if its really that hard see a nuero MD they have al ways of seeing whats really going on
If you know the trait of positives then you can change from being a negative person.
You have to reprogram your mind.
Your mind is like a computer.
Garbage in..garbage out
Search on Yahoo
%26quot;Positive Affirmations%26quot; ( with the quotes around both words)
and do them daily..til they take root. Then do more.
Remember: YOU ARE what you think.
If you want to be down, youre wish is your command.
Youre like a magnet and what you think is what is attracted to you.
Really get into seeing what a great opportunity this is for you, and you'll get excited about it.
Rent the movie %26quot; The Secret%26quot;
PS. Dont let your mind say %26quot; youre just lying to yourself%26quot; thats part of your negative nature. Say I am turning into a great new person..shut up.
try to find the bright side of things. Like, yes this is a horrible situation, but its ok because... then u search for a positive. Some ppl find it quickly, others don't. Also, it helps to have a little mental filter in your mind, to keep you from saying things u shouldn't. that's prolly the hardest, i'm still trying to work on mine, cuz i usually say the first thing that comes to my mind, a third of the time i don't even think about it. Anyways, as for the putting others down. you need to find your own confidence, and not a the expense of other's feelings. Cuz, when you do that, it still leaves u empty inside, doesn't it? You have to look inside of yourself and find things you are good at. Leave the little people alone. ^_^ good luck changing... it isn't an instant thing btw it takes time, like EVERYTHING else. *sighs*
I can tell you that being around someone who is negative and complains and gossips and puts other down is exhausting. I stopped going into the teacher's lounge one semester because when I went I felt so down and upset because they sucked me into feeling like they did. When I found somewhere else to go, I could face my day as it came, the bad and the good.
All you can do is to bite your tongue when you start to say something negative. You can stay away from the people you gossip with. You have to listen to yourself and hear what you are saying. You don't have to get all positive and happy, just stop being all negative and complaining.
If you are a news junkie, stop watching for a few days. That'll brighten your mood. When your mother starts talking negatively, just go into another room. You don't have to be her. Try reading some funny comics or a cheerful book. Look around your room and find one thing you really like about it. Don't put yourself down. You've got to listen to the messages that you are giving yourself and try to stop them at least some of the time.
Remember, first you behave and then you become. You can stop being a gossip by not telling or listening to gossip. Soon, it will be automatic. You can stop blurting out things you say by thinking for a second before you start or stopping yourself in the middle if you catch yourself.
You're already on your way by addressing the issue. Change may not happen overnight, but it will when you stay on it. Some say that people never change, but they do if they want to. And life changes drastically and beautifully when you realize the amazing benefits of changing how you see and do things.
You're right it is hard to change. You must work hard at it to make it work. My Mother has a way of being negative, so I know how it is. When I find myself being negative I focus on anything that makes me happy. Then I find the good in the situation. There is good in everything. Instead of gossiping try to talk about your favorite book or t.v. show. Things like that so you have a better topic to share with others. Hope this will help you. Don't worry if it takes awhile, I still slip up. No one is perfect, so smile and do your best.
How do I make more guy friends?
I have a lot of girl friends, but the guys, not so much.. Like, my one friend says I flirt way to much with them and honest to god I don't know I do it! And I get way to shy around them.. I'm pretty quiet unless I know the person I'm talking to, how can I change that without people noticing? Because if you change your personality the least bit at my school you hear about it from everyone, literally.. Please don't be rude, and thank you!
How do I make more guy friends?
i asked something like this yesterday! one person said to just try and start conversations with them. As for conversation starters, I really have no idea. Sorry but hope the little bit helped!
How do I make more guy friends?
i asked something like this yesterday! one person said to just try and start conversations with them. As for conversation starters, I really have no idea. Sorry but hope the little bit helped!
How does it feel to ride a horse?
Does it change your personality?
How does it feel to ride a horse?
It is a great experience, you should try it sometime.
How does it feel to ride a horse?
it sort of changes your personality. like you feel bright eyed and refreshed.
my balls kinda hurt after awhile.. but its kinda cool.. moving on top of a living creature instead of the boring old car engine..
Taller to start with and later just sore!
It feels great, change your personality??? well they do use it for people and children to get in touch with life if that helps.
The last time I rode a horse, the horse knew that I didn't know how to ride. It kept trying to scrape me off by walking close to trees and fences. We were both happy to get back to the barn.
This event took place somewhere across a river from Folsom Prison. I could see the prison clearly, and would probably have traded places with anybody there just so I could get off that horse.
It makes me happy. I forget all the troubles of the day and enjoy riding my favorite horse, Moon. She's a white Arabian. It gives you the feeling of flying when you are at a full run.
u c wat it feels like when u get on one. itz great. like ur da king of ... well... somtin!
ps : wat kinda name is sarca stick?
It'll make you a man!
I can't remember much. The one I was on was hot and sweaty and covered with flies, so...other than that, it was fun. It's a new experience, for sure.
As for changing my personality? I don't think so....I've always been a little strange.
Riding at full gallop on the back of my horse is a wonderful freeing experience, it's like you become one with this beautiful animal, my horse is 16.3hh and weighs close to 600kgs.......
I love the feeling of riding. You ad your horse become one, and it makes me forget all of the bad crap that happened that day. It doesn't really change your personality as much as it changes you. It makes life worth living. Whether you jump which I highly recommend or do western it is so amazing to know you are controlling a 1000lbs. animal and he listens. It gives your power.
Absolutely fantastic, and the more you ride the more you learn.I started riding when I was 40, a bit late I know, but then you are never too old to start. Personality wise, you can have a crap day and be feeling low but once you get on a horse your spirits just rise
i love riding horses, it makes you feel free, you tend to feel like a free spirit, and when you gallop, and the winds in your face, the fresh air, its beautiful, very relaxing.. wanna try it
i have a horse for sale..
no lol its doesnt but it feels great especially if you have a bond with the horse if you havnt tried it you should it really good
awsome it feels like no more worrys i am like in my own little world when i am on my horse
I have rode a few broncos and some stallions in my time I love the motion up going up and down very fast, its a great feeling.
no
I used to ride as an exercise rider at the race track.
There is nothing like being on a horse doing about 40 mph.
It is exciting and sort of scary at the same time. You are amazed at the power of the animal and that you can control it.
I ride now as it helps me relax after a day at work.
I ride becasue the time I spend with my horse is quality time just me and him out riding in the fields. Quite and peaceful.
it's the most amazing feeling... you are physically taller than you were before and you have an animal underneath you that is willing to carry you where you want to go... i love horses and riding is always a calming and relaxing experience no matter how sore i am the next day... i think it changes my personality... after i ride a horse i'm usually more agreeable and less irritable for a while... hope this is a good answer to your question...
I have been riding under training since I was 5 years old, so I don't know much about change of personality. I wouldn't remember from that time. I will say that it makes my day! I love to ride in winter when it is cold out in the early morning. I live in Florida so it gets hot by mid day in the winter.
I also love to ride a horse bare back in to a pond during the summer and swim with him/her. I have had so many great riding experiences!
I believe if I never had the experience with these wonderful animals then I would have missed a lot in my life. I have learned to care for an animal, train with an animal, compete with an animal, to care for something more than myself, to feel freedom during a ride, and to understand the needs of something that can not speak to me as a person can.
I know all of this must have had an effect on my personality. I highly recommend riding and I would do even more than that if you can.
Good Luck and Take Care
At first, you may feel a little intimidated and scared (and sore after the first ride), but you will gain your confidence. Riding is a way to have control over something bigger than just you. It can also be a friendship and bond between two species of animals (humans and horses). I currently ride two different horses who have opposite personalities. One is full of spirit and run. She has an attitude that is not acceptable for a new/inexperienced rider, as she is a barrel racing horse. She makes me feel free spirited. Riding her is a workout, when you don't let her run. The other horse is a slow, laid back pleasure horse who is just a joy to work with. Riding her is like sitting in a reclining chair. Riding her is pure pleasure and relaxation. As for changing your personality, YES in a way. I use it for stress relief and relaxation. When I leave the barn, I am happier and more relaxed. The things that bothered me before my ride no longer matter. It puts me in a state of euphoria. In any case- riding is awesome!
awsome,no
How does it feel to ride a horse?
It is a great experience, you should try it sometime.
How does it feel to ride a horse?
it sort of changes your personality. like you feel bright eyed and refreshed.
my balls kinda hurt after awhile.. but its kinda cool.. moving on top of a living creature instead of the boring old car engine..
Taller to start with and later just sore!
It feels great, change your personality??? well they do use it for people and children to get in touch with life if that helps.
The last time I rode a horse, the horse knew that I didn't know how to ride. It kept trying to scrape me off by walking close to trees and fences. We were both happy to get back to the barn.
This event took place somewhere across a river from Folsom Prison. I could see the prison clearly, and would probably have traded places with anybody there just so I could get off that horse.
It makes me happy. I forget all the troubles of the day and enjoy riding my favorite horse, Moon. She's a white Arabian. It gives you the feeling of flying when you are at a full run.
u c wat it feels like when u get on one. itz great. like ur da king of ... well... somtin!
ps : wat kinda name is sarca stick?
It'll make you a man!
I can't remember much. The one I was on was hot and sweaty and covered with flies, so...other than that, it was fun. It's a new experience, for sure.
As for changing my personality? I don't think so....I've always been a little strange.
Riding at full gallop on the back of my horse is a wonderful freeing experience, it's like you become one with this beautiful animal, my horse is 16.3hh and weighs close to 600kgs.......
I love the feeling of riding. You ad your horse become one, and it makes me forget all of the bad crap that happened that day. It doesn't really change your personality as much as it changes you. It makes life worth living. Whether you jump which I highly recommend or do western it is so amazing to know you are controlling a 1000lbs. animal and he listens. It gives your power.
Absolutely fantastic, and the more you ride the more you learn.I started riding when I was 40, a bit late I know, but then you are never too old to start. Personality wise, you can have a crap day and be feeling low but once you get on a horse your spirits just rise
i love riding horses, it makes you feel free, you tend to feel like a free spirit, and when you gallop, and the winds in your face, the fresh air, its beautiful, very relaxing.. wanna try it
i have a horse for sale..
no lol its doesnt but it feels great especially if you have a bond with the horse if you havnt tried it you should it really good
awsome it feels like no more worrys i am like in my own little world when i am on my horse
I have rode a few broncos and some stallions in my time I love the motion up going up and down very fast, its a great feeling.
no
I used to ride as an exercise rider at the race track.
There is nothing like being on a horse doing about 40 mph.
It is exciting and sort of scary at the same time. You are amazed at the power of the animal and that you can control it.
I ride now as it helps me relax after a day at work.
I ride becasue the time I spend with my horse is quality time just me and him out riding in the fields. Quite and peaceful.
it's the most amazing feeling... you are physically taller than you were before and you have an animal underneath you that is willing to carry you where you want to go... i love horses and riding is always a calming and relaxing experience no matter how sore i am the next day... i think it changes my personality... after i ride a horse i'm usually more agreeable and less irritable for a while... hope this is a good answer to your question...
I have been riding under training since I was 5 years old, so I don't know much about change of personality. I wouldn't remember from that time. I will say that it makes my day! I love to ride in winter when it is cold out in the early morning. I live in Florida so it gets hot by mid day in the winter.
I also love to ride a horse bare back in to a pond during the summer and swim with him/her. I have had so many great riding experiences!
I believe if I never had the experience with these wonderful animals then I would have missed a lot in my life. I have learned to care for an animal, train with an animal, compete with an animal, to care for something more than myself, to feel freedom during a ride, and to understand the needs of something that can not speak to me as a person can.
I know all of this must have had an effect on my personality. I highly recommend riding and I would do even more than that if you can.
Good Luck and Take Care
At first, you may feel a little intimidated and scared (and sore after the first ride), but you will gain your confidence. Riding is a way to have control over something bigger than just you. It can also be a friendship and bond between two species of animals (humans and horses). I currently ride two different horses who have opposite personalities. One is full of spirit and run. She has an attitude that is not acceptable for a new/inexperienced rider, as she is a barrel racing horse. She makes me feel free spirited. Riding her is a workout, when you don't let her run. The other horse is a slow, laid back pleasure horse who is just a joy to work with. Riding her is like sitting in a reclining chair. Riding her is pure pleasure and relaxation. As for changing your personality, YES in a way. I use it for stress relief and relaxation. When I leave the barn, I am happier and more relaxed. The things that bothered me before my ride no longer matter. It puts me in a state of euphoria. In any case- riding is awesome!
awsome,no
How does your character develop when you become independent?
When you become independent, how does your personality change? I learned to take initiatives as a result and took classes, outside activities, as well as a job. In what ways did you become independent?
How does your character develop when you become independent?
Being independent is the best thing I ever did for myself.
When my Dad offered to take care of me the rest of my life, that is when I realized (at age 18) that I didn't want to be a free loader. I got a better paying job and moved out into my own apartment. I didn't ask for help when I was broke. I ate bagel and cream cheese for months. I learned how to budget my money, save and discipline. I also gained motivation to advance my career to make more money I ever thought I would.
1. never give up
2. Don't try, just do
You character depends on you and who you are. Being independent will make you strong, wise, and careful. There is so many great characters that develop as you grow.
Try asking 5 people what they think about your character. Then ask then again in 2 years after becoming 100% independent.
Good luck, it is very self gratifying!
How does your character develop when you become independent?
you become self-sufficient.
Well you can no longer vote in the primaries but that was the only real difference I noticed.
By getting a job.
My own apartment.
Continuing my College education.
Reading more about history, The real facts and truth.
Yoga, chakra balancing and meditation.
And believing in me, loving everything about me.
I believe the more responsible you are, the more independent you can become. Being 'responsible' is the key!!
I went to trade school, graduated, left home, got a job and have been independent ever since. Just living your life will change you, but you should have a distinct character by now. Character comes from inside.
When you become indepent you understand your responsibilitys, and you find out how hard it is in life and you build your character by being yourself and not letting anybody bring you down. You become stronger and everybody looks at you totaly different and you know you can do for yourself and they do to, you become stronger and that in itself says alot about you character.
well I had a car accident in '94 I was in a coma for 6 months in the Hospital for about 14 months, I was in a wheelchair for 10 years.I always lived at my mothers house I went back my mothers house for about 11 years until I got my own place %26amp; it feels great I basicaly do WHAT I WANT when I want I bring over who I want when I want, I eat what I want when I want it's great
How does your character develop when you become independent?
Being independent is the best thing I ever did for myself.
When my Dad offered to take care of me the rest of my life, that is when I realized (at age 18) that I didn't want to be a free loader. I got a better paying job and moved out into my own apartment. I didn't ask for help when I was broke. I ate bagel and cream cheese for months. I learned how to budget my money, save and discipline. I also gained motivation to advance my career to make more money I ever thought I would.
1. never give up
2. Don't try, just do
You character depends on you and who you are. Being independent will make you strong, wise, and careful. There is so many great characters that develop as you grow.
Try asking 5 people what they think about your character. Then ask then again in 2 years after becoming 100% independent.
Good luck, it is very self gratifying!
How does your character develop when you become independent?
you become self-sufficient.
Well you can no longer vote in the primaries but that was the only real difference I noticed.
By getting a job.
My own apartment.
Continuing my College education.
Reading more about history, The real facts and truth.
Yoga, chakra balancing and meditation.
And believing in me, loving everything about me.
I believe the more responsible you are, the more independent you can become. Being 'responsible' is the key!!
I went to trade school, graduated, left home, got a job and have been independent ever since. Just living your life will change you, but you should have a distinct character by now. Character comes from inside.
When you become indepent you understand your responsibilitys, and you find out how hard it is in life and you build your character by being yourself and not letting anybody bring you down. You become stronger and everybody looks at you totaly different and you know you can do for yourself and they do to, you become stronger and that in itself says alot about you character.
well I had a car accident in '94 I was in a coma for 6 months in the Hospital for about 14 months, I was in a wheelchair for 10 years.I always lived at my mothers house I went back my mothers house for about 11 years until I got my own place %26amp; it feels great I basicaly do WHAT I WANT when I want I bring over who I want when I want, I eat what I want when I want it's great
---HOW TO CHANGE/ BE MORE OUTGOING?!?--?
Is it possible to change your personality? I am a chill/ laid back kind of person, kind of shy and not as extroverted or outgoing. I think it is my genes that are a barrier for me. I reaallly wanna be like very, very outgoing but it's extremely hard when you cannot go against nature. Is it even possible to become very outgoing and extroverted and just simply not care what anyone thinks of you or am I doomed for life? Plz help cuz I have the drive...
---HOW TO CHANGE/ BE MORE OUTGOING?!?--?
course your personality changes, usually when you grow older. I've become more outgoing as i have grown older, mainly because of new friends i've made who have brought out a new side of me.
Try to mix with different kinds of people and you'll soon be outgoing.xp hair spray
---HOW TO CHANGE/ BE MORE OUTGOING?!?--?
course your personality changes, usually when you grow older. I've become more outgoing as i have grown older, mainly because of new friends i've made who have brought out a new side of me.
Try to mix with different kinds of people and you'll soon be outgoing.
How much has your personality changed in the past few years?
I've been in college the last four years....and I can say that from the time when I started to now, my personality has changed in almost every way possible....Sometimes, it's alienating.
How much has your personality changed in the past few years?
yeah for sure, i'm a much stronger person than i was 2 years ago and i will stand up more for what i believe. I am sick of trying to make everyone else happy
How much has your personality changed in the past few years?
Not much
a lot, and probably still will...for the better :-)
no, but a lot of my friends have, theyve gone slutty and it makes me wanna barf
mine has changed a lot. good luck.
My personality has for the most part stayed the same but there are definatly differences from a few years ago.
alot...I've grown more seen more things...basically matured!
Quite a bit, i have turned more passive in the past few years.
well only u can change that
i've chilled out quite a bit
a lot i have changed for the better
well my personality has completely changed passed the last year and im doing things I would have a year ago
Alot..I've grown up very nicely
I think my basic personality has stayed the same, but my outlook on life has toughed up quite a bit, sadly...........
I'm a completely different person. I'm much more optimistic and a heck of a lot wiser.
i'm less manic over the years, thank gawd
the personality does not set until the age of 25 so yes you can make very big strides in your personality changes
heaps. i am happier ...more outgoing..scarier and freakier. but thats getting older right?
mine hasn't changed that much in the past 2 years but in the past few years it has. i have learned to control my emotions a whole lot better then i used to be able too. i'm still only 16 so I know i have a lot more growing to go through
i learned not to have too much compassion. people just use you. i wouldn't really call that a personality change though.
Very much. I'm more mature now than before.
I have changed a whole lot. I am still at a loss whether it has been for the better though...
Mine has changed a lot. A divorce will do that to you. I am much happier and calmer. Just a better person all the way around. It happens as we grow in life and have those many life altering experiences.
I've changed about 90% of who I am in just the past 6 months. It really is crazy, but everything I've done has been a mistake that I've learned from, and it's only making me stronger.
In the past 4 years, I have changed more thatn anyone could change. Ive gone from one way of thinking to another, better way of thinking... I like who I am now.
I think that all the unfortunate things that have happened to me over the past few years has helped me grow up and out of an immature girl.
not much ccuz deep down im still the same old me but ya know im 14 and in middle/highskool ppl start to find themselves and figure out hoo they r...for example teens constantly changin styles, tryna b popular, be in cliques, etc..my styles changed a bit and i wouldnt say myslef im completely popular, but i have A TON of friends/acquaintances but im friends wit every1 popular or not.........im still me tho :)but my mind and the way i think in a few ways is better, tho im still the deep thinker/worry-wart i always was.:)
ALOT ill just say i went from tomboy to prepp and now im a rock gurl.....and going into punk...its scarry cause its only been 2 years and all this is happening
it'd be too long to type out, but for the most part, i've gotten to the point where i can accept most of the things i am a part of. it sounds weird, but it was harder for me than most people for whatever reason. I'm better able to just kind of... accept. Well, that and a few other things. I'm a little more outgoing, my sarcastic side shows a little more (which kind of sucks when done at the wrong time) but yeah. i mean people change all the time, but you don't always realize it. i guess i'm just one of those people at the moment.
your personality never changes, you just learn and change your behavior, you become more mature. humans must pass the stages: childhood, youth, teen, adult, and each has its own characteristics
A lot... I used to be a nice girl... (I was 10!). Then I told some b**** some stuff about a girl behind her back and the b**** couldn't keep her mouth shut. Now I say f*** or b**** every five seconds... Yeah. I'm 12 now...
How much has your personality changed in the past few years?
yeah for sure, i'm a much stronger person than i was 2 years ago and i will stand up more for what i believe. I am sick of trying to make everyone else happy
How much has your personality changed in the past few years?
Not much
a lot, and probably still will...for the better :-)
no, but a lot of my friends have, theyve gone slutty and it makes me wanna barf
mine has changed a lot. good luck.
My personality has for the most part stayed the same but there are definatly differences from a few years ago.
alot...I've grown more seen more things...basically matured!
Quite a bit, i have turned more passive in the past few years.
well only u can change that
i've chilled out quite a bit
a lot i have changed for the better
well my personality has completely changed passed the last year and im doing things I would have a year ago
Alot..I've grown up very nicely
I think my basic personality has stayed the same, but my outlook on life has toughed up quite a bit, sadly...........
I'm a completely different person. I'm much more optimistic and a heck of a lot wiser.
i'm less manic over the years, thank gawd
the personality does not set until the age of 25 so yes you can make very big strides in your personality changes
heaps. i am happier ...more outgoing..scarier and freakier. but thats getting older right?
mine hasn't changed that much in the past 2 years but in the past few years it has. i have learned to control my emotions a whole lot better then i used to be able too. i'm still only 16 so I know i have a lot more growing to go through
i learned not to have too much compassion. people just use you. i wouldn't really call that a personality change though.
Very much. I'm more mature now than before.
I have changed a whole lot. I am still at a loss whether it has been for the better though...
Mine has changed a lot. A divorce will do that to you. I am much happier and calmer. Just a better person all the way around. It happens as we grow in life and have those many life altering experiences.
I've changed about 90% of who I am in just the past 6 months. It really is crazy, but everything I've done has been a mistake that I've learned from, and it's only making me stronger.
In the past 4 years, I have changed more thatn anyone could change. Ive gone from one way of thinking to another, better way of thinking... I like who I am now.
I think that all the unfortunate things that have happened to me over the past few years has helped me grow up and out of an immature girl.
not much ccuz deep down im still the same old me but ya know im 14 and in middle/highskool ppl start to find themselves and figure out hoo they r...for example teens constantly changin styles, tryna b popular, be in cliques, etc..my styles changed a bit and i wouldnt say myslef im completely popular, but i have A TON of friends/acquaintances but im friends wit every1 popular or not.........im still me tho :)but my mind and the way i think in a few ways is better, tho im still the deep thinker/worry-wart i always was.:)
ALOT ill just say i went from tomboy to prepp and now im a rock gurl.....and going into punk...its scarry cause its only been 2 years and all this is happening
it'd be too long to type out, but for the most part, i've gotten to the point where i can accept most of the things i am a part of. it sounds weird, but it was harder for me than most people for whatever reason. I'm better able to just kind of... accept. Well, that and a few other things. I'm a little more outgoing, my sarcastic side shows a little more (which kind of sucks when done at the wrong time) but yeah. i mean people change all the time, but you don't always realize it. i guess i'm just one of those people at the moment.
your personality never changes, you just learn and change your behavior, you become more mature. humans must pass the stages: childhood, youth, teen, adult, and each has its own characteristics
A lot... I used to be a nice girl... (I was 10!). Then I told some b**** some stuff about a girl behind her back and the b**** couldn't keep her mouth shut. Now I say f*** or b**** every five seconds... Yeah. I'm 12 now...
If you could correct something about your personality what would you change?
well, I simply want the self-confidence I did not develop....yet, my co-workers ask me how I have it so 'together' when their offices are in chaos, their work stressing them out even to tears.
If you could correct something about your personality what would you change?
Your question and statement above really rings in my ears. Perhaps it is knowledge of (or familiarity with) the lack of confidence that makes you suited to the psychology of chaos, stress, an emergency, etc.
In my case I also seem to be able to help out in similar circumstances. But where I am frustrated is in my own ability to 'help myself'. I am very poor at promoting myself as if my gifts - no matter how good they may or may not be - were too sunk in to catch fire. So I get too frustrated too easily. I would like to find ways to transform that frustration into creative action because I feel I am not participating enough in what is great and exciting about this life.
I don't like the way I handle difficult challenges - particularly the financial challenges. I'd like to change the habit of blaming (whether self or others), or looking to lay blame, into a higher quality ability to analyze and act effectively. I would like to correct or greatly modify my impatience. I am impatient reflexively. I am very concerned that I have not yet been able to develop the conscious basis for genuine patience. There is a tension between my heart and head (or desire and method) that has been very difficult to control right from a young age. Yet there are some areas where I am the most patient one in the room. Still I would like to correct my own knee-jerk impatience.
Part of my personality is too sunk in or introverted and another part is the opposite. I would love to be able to tinker with both parts until they got along in a more productive way. The extraverted part is too emotional and the introverted part is too oppressed. Of course it is not always bad, but overall that split in my personality does seem to be obstructing productivity.
My personality is not handling the problem of conflict well - especially in the realm of values. I find I get too discouraged too easily. If I could change something in this area I think I would like to strengthen my own values so that I am not so easily discouraged by the conflict I feel with other peoples' values. But perhaps I am in conflict with myself. If this is the case then I would very much like to transform more of that conflict into creative behavior. I think there might be a hidden egotism or selfishness lurking around inside my personality that feeds off my own value conflicts. Therefore I am not resolving those conflicts effectively.
If I could change this part of my personality perhaps it means I need to descend into the dark parts of my own being and hunt for that elusive ego and take back some of the energy that it has swallowed. That might allow more of the gifts to catch fire and become visible. Selfishness is elusive. If you are too generous you might fail to guard your own safety and needs. But if you are too selfish you may fail to share yourself with others in a way that sheds light and promotes happiness. The opposites in my pesonality are too extreme. And it is the extreme separation among the various parts that I think I would most like to change. I think a very subtle, hidden egotism just keeps feeding off the tension that will not let my whole personality relax and feel satisfaction. This inhibits the ability to feel and express love in too many circumstances. Love is necessary to feel whole and to transform discouragement. Love can take many forms
Overall I would like to bring my inner life closer to the surface so that inner and outer can work together a little more productively than they are now. If fear is blocking this productivity and if selfishness is holding back the treasures of the inner life, then I would like to figure out how to transform those negative traits into a better dynamic.
What is wonderful about your question is that it feels as if I myself had asked it. So thanks. You have made me think about a fairly deep problem.
B. Lyons
If you could correct something about your personality what would you change?
Would like to give up the habit of worrying.
I have no desire for adventure, I mean really none. People ask me to do things (like jump out of planes or holiday overseas) and I just don't want to, these things fail to excite me even when I do them. I am quite happy thanks. But it drives my boyfriend crazy cause he is a danger freak and wants me to do some of this crap with him. But I would only be changing for him then.
I would infuse my bank account with about $345 million. That should take care of just about anything. I'd be able to pay off my credit cards and maybe take a vacation. Things would be different then... I would not have to take anything from anybody.
It sounds like you have it together more than you realize! I'd change my ambition levels. I'd like to be more ambitious and make thousands and millions a year instead of working at a stupid job that pays next to nothing.
Yes I'm with you, I need more self confidence and to be more outgoing.
whole heartdly i wud first thank god for making me a ''human being''..instead some other species which r in danger, y wud he not make me a dog who cant speak out if hungry, y not a snake crawling in the dark fearing death every minute, y not a bird migrating for food, y not a fish eaten by ppl anyday....but god made me a human being, with legs to walk rather lame, ears to hear music rather deaf, mouth to speak rather dumb etc......
sorrows, worries and problems r not sowed by god, infact it sprouts out from human character, evil thoughts and evil companies....thank him atleat he has given us all some knowledge to understand such questions and answer them. thank him for showing us vision to see '' yahoo answers''....
am not a spritual person infact...but hav some gratitude towards creation.
If you could correct something about your personality what would you change?
Your question and statement above really rings in my ears. Perhaps it is knowledge of (or familiarity with) the lack of confidence that makes you suited to the psychology of chaos, stress, an emergency, etc.
In my case I also seem to be able to help out in similar circumstances. But where I am frustrated is in my own ability to 'help myself'. I am very poor at promoting myself as if my gifts - no matter how good they may or may not be - were too sunk in to catch fire. So I get too frustrated too easily. I would like to find ways to transform that frustration into creative action because I feel I am not participating enough in what is great and exciting about this life.
I don't like the way I handle difficult challenges - particularly the financial challenges. I'd like to change the habit of blaming (whether self or others), or looking to lay blame, into a higher quality ability to analyze and act effectively. I would like to correct or greatly modify my impatience. I am impatient reflexively. I am very concerned that I have not yet been able to develop the conscious basis for genuine patience. There is a tension between my heart and head (or desire and method) that has been very difficult to control right from a young age. Yet there are some areas where I am the most patient one in the room. Still I would like to correct my own knee-jerk impatience.
Part of my personality is too sunk in or introverted and another part is the opposite. I would love to be able to tinker with both parts until they got along in a more productive way. The extraverted part is too emotional and the introverted part is too oppressed. Of course it is not always bad, but overall that split in my personality does seem to be obstructing productivity.
My personality is not handling the problem of conflict well - especially in the realm of values. I find I get too discouraged too easily. If I could change something in this area I think I would like to strengthen my own values so that I am not so easily discouraged by the conflict I feel with other peoples' values. But perhaps I am in conflict with myself. If this is the case then I would very much like to transform more of that conflict into creative behavior. I think there might be a hidden egotism or selfishness lurking around inside my personality that feeds off my own value conflicts. Therefore I am not resolving those conflicts effectively.
If I could change this part of my personality perhaps it means I need to descend into the dark parts of my own being and hunt for that elusive ego and take back some of the energy that it has swallowed. That might allow more of the gifts to catch fire and become visible. Selfishness is elusive. If you are too generous you might fail to guard your own safety and needs. But if you are too selfish you may fail to share yourself with others in a way that sheds light and promotes happiness. The opposites in my pesonality are too extreme. And it is the extreme separation among the various parts that I think I would most like to change. I think a very subtle, hidden egotism just keeps feeding off the tension that will not let my whole personality relax and feel satisfaction. This inhibits the ability to feel and express love in too many circumstances. Love is necessary to feel whole and to transform discouragement. Love can take many forms
Overall I would like to bring my inner life closer to the surface so that inner and outer can work together a little more productively than they are now. If fear is blocking this productivity and if selfishness is holding back the treasures of the inner life, then I would like to figure out how to transform those negative traits into a better dynamic.
What is wonderful about your question is that it feels as if I myself had asked it. So thanks. You have made me think about a fairly deep problem.
B. Lyons
If you could correct something about your personality what would you change?
Would like to give up the habit of worrying.
I have no desire for adventure, I mean really none. People ask me to do things (like jump out of planes or holiday overseas) and I just don't want to, these things fail to excite me even when I do them. I am quite happy thanks. But it drives my boyfriend crazy cause he is a danger freak and wants me to do some of this crap with him. But I would only be changing for him then.
I would infuse my bank account with about $345 million. That should take care of just about anything. I'd be able to pay off my credit cards and maybe take a vacation. Things would be different then... I would not have to take anything from anybody.
It sounds like you have it together more than you realize! I'd change my ambition levels. I'd like to be more ambitious and make thousands and millions a year instead of working at a stupid job that pays next to nothing.
Yes I'm with you, I need more self confidence and to be more outgoing.
whole heartdly i wud first thank god for making me a ''human being''..instead some other species which r in danger, y wud he not make me a dog who cant speak out if hungry, y not a snake crawling in the dark fearing death every minute, y not a bird migrating for food, y not a fish eaten by ppl anyday....but god made me a human being, with legs to walk rather lame, ears to hear music rather deaf, mouth to speak rather dumb etc......
sorrows, worries and problems r not sowed by god, infact it sprouts out from human character, evil thoughts and evil companies....thank him atleat he has given us all some knowledge to understand such questions and answer them. thank him for showing us vision to see '' yahoo answers''....
am not a spritual person infact...but hav some gratitude towards creation.
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