All i want is to do things that normal outgoing people do so can u please tell me what to do ?
thanks a lot ..
How do u change your whole personality without looking weird and fake ?
Carla,
If you want to change your personality, you should look deeper into yourself; past your worries and insecurities. You are the only one who can change yourself, because if you ask someone else they will just tell you what they want you to be. You have the potential to be whoever you want. YOU, are your own person. Don't worry about what others think, because not one person on this earth is better than anyone else. Just be yourself.
How do u change your whole personality without looking weird and fake ?
thank guys
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No problem. :)
I know how life can be difficult. I've been there.
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just be who you want to be and have fun. don't be desperate and people won't think you are.
You don't want to change your personality, what you want to do is let it out. You are just scared people won't approve of you so you hide it. Those are irrational thoughts, and you need to change your way of thinking. Do more things you enjoy, start exercising, just a simple a 15 minute jog outside can make a big difference.
If you change into what you really wanna be most people will realize that. Right now they probably feel you are being fake. Do what makes you happy and try to hold ur head high even when you feel scared.
Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: %26quot;Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.%26quot; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
