I want to ask you a very important question.
Are you GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY every time you meet a
beautiful woman?
Do you ever put on a mask and change your personality around
an attractive woman or anyone else?
Do you ever TRY EXTERMELY HARD to get a woman to like you
and leave your fate in HER hands HOPING she’ll chose you?
Do you ever try to prove to people how “cool” or “smart” you
are?
Well, if you are the first thing I want you to do is STOP!
It’s IDIOTIC behavior.
And with that here is your first tip:
If you want to be REALLY successful with beautiful women,
you need to treat them like anyone else.
You need to realize that there is no difference between that
hot 22 year old than there was when she was an overweight 12
year old with glasses and braces.
Get it?
If you really want to stand out to a woman you CAN’T let the
pressure to be Mr. Cool fu*k with your personality.
How would you treat this “hot” girl if she suddenly gained
100 pounds?...
That’s what I’m talking about.
My point is that if you want to be successful with women,
you need to treat them the same regardless of looks.
She’s only “hot” when you decide that she is... plus your
definition of “hot” is some else’s ugly… if you really want
to get through to her don’t address her as “the hot girl”
but as another person.
Let me give you an example.
If you met Will Ferrell how would you address him?
How would you treat him if you knew him as a celebrity and praise him…
Would you treat him any differently than if you met him at
McDonalds and struck up a conversation having no idea who he
was?
When you’re talking to a girl don’t treat her for the
persona you’ve given her… don't treat her with %26quot;celebrity%26quot; status.
just treat her like another person.
You’ve been ****** up by this idea of teachers, bosses,
parents and this idea of a social “ladder” and believing
that one human life is better than another one.
Would you treat Tom Brady any differently if he was a bum
on the street than “Quarterback of the New England
Patriots”?
I think you get the idea.
YOU NEED TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
You can’t let how rich, handsome, powerful or famous someone
is cause you to treat them ANY differently. They’re not
magically blessed – they’re no better or worse than anyone
else… they’re just humans going through their lives like
anyone else.
Looking at life this way will benefit you because once you
accept that you’re equal to everyone else, you will no
longer look to those who are “better” than you for
validation.
An example being that you realize you no longer need to try
to impress a girl just because she’s “hot”.
The reason this is so powerful is because when you think this way then you’re no longer putting others in control of your emotions and
you're no longer allowing others to have control of or your
fate… you don’t have control over anyone but yourself and
once you accept control of your life, that you’re going
to answer to NO ONE and that you’re NOT going to let anyone
else have ANY effect on your behavior your life will start
getting under your control and women will find you
incredibly attractive.
When you do your own thinking with NO concern for what anyone
else thinks, you also put yourself on TOP of the social
ladder. You don't need anyone else's approval and expect others to answer to YOU.
... Women perceive that you’re comfortable with who you are (and find it VERY attractive).
Another benefit to this is that it shows others you have
options in your life… if you acting needy, nervous or afraid
about a woman's reaction what do you think she assumes about you?
... That YOU’RE DESPRATE and you don’t have options so you’re
desperate to get her.
Do you think she wants a needy, insecure guy?
HELL NO!
She wants a confident man who’s in control and knows what
he’s doing.
She wants a man who knows what he wants and goes after it
with no excuses. A man who she can feel safe and protected with.
If you want an example of what I’m talking about think about
this.
Think of the most gorgeous girl you know.
Now, If Brad Pitt came up to her what do you think he would
do?
Do you think he would be nervous and say, “hey… so what’s
your name? What are you doing here? I was wondering if I
could talk to you” and sit around and FORCE boring
conversation with her because he NEEDED her to like him?
... do you think he'd waste months or even just HOURS trying
to play it cool and flirt with her hoping she'd be attracted
to him?
Could you see Brad Pitt trying to force small talk with a
woman and put himself BELOW a woman from the moment he
starts talking to her?
I doubt it.
He would walk in confidently, probably knowing he has
Girls what's your opinion on this?
a lot of girls think this way i'm sure i would too, but this is not going to change any ones mind, like YOU wouldn't treat any one differently because of there popularity or status. YOU try it, don't tell girls to STOP it everyone does this even you, you may be against it, but i doubt you follow it to the point as your trying to yell at us for doing, you try acting the same way with your friends (all goofy and strange) then go to a girl you like (and act the same way) it doesn't work out. The point i'm saying is that its a good thought, but its impossible to follow through. I would not act like an idiot (like when i'm at a sleepover with my friends) and then act like an idiot towards a guy i like, it just doesn't work that way.
so, you try it before putting it on yahoo answers, its not even much of an asking opinion thing, its stop it right now your being stupid, your telling them what to think...
PS i do treat people with a good personality with respect, no matter how drop-dead gorgeous they are.
Girls what's your opinion on this?
I got a little frustrated while reading this, thanks for the ten points and sorry for yelling at you even though it wasn't your thoughts, but you should've wrote an additional detail saying it wasn't your thoughts.
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i didnt even read all of this, cuz it was weird.
but wow...get a notebook or something?!
This isn't a question it's a rant.
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this is way to long to read ! i got bored not even half way through
Blog!
I know, but idk
sorry
I think this is very true. # 1 men and woman should be confident we should all feel good about ourselves. # 2 Men should not bow down and kiss the a** of a woman who is acting like a stuck up bi***. Nor should woman do this for men. Were only as pretty as we act. Beauty is skin deep. I believe it's much more attractive when a good looking woman presents her self in a well mannered way.
you must have had your heart broke recently. if that is the case don't fret you are human. as a woman let me tell you i have had my heart broken many times. I personally choose who i am going to be with or around based on how i feel about the person (S). My husband has never been %26quot;fake with me or told me that something looks good when it don't%26quot;. He also sticks to his opinions and beliefs. so in a sense you are right when you say be yourself and don't give %26quot;GoD%26quot; status to a potential mate just because they have a good appearance or have lots of money.
