its like your whole personality is changed and your not the person we use to know.
its like being friends with you has to seem like the hardest thing in the world.
why do you have to make it harder for us when it doesnt even have to be?
i mean, just because you liked us girls doesnt mean that the friendship still isn't there.
its like we don't know who you are anymore and your distance becomes away from us. your attitude is slightly moody and somewhat angry, yet you still do things like help us out or care for us ( well the shy guy i knew did this).
how are we suppose to get back the guy that we once knew?
is it really that much to take in for you guys?
please comment thx ;)
Guys, why does your behaviour change if a girl says 'lets be friends'?
because they were expecting more. If they want a friend, they will hang with their guy %26quot;friends%26quot;.
Guys, why does your behaviour change if a girl says 'lets be friends'?
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cos they don't want to be friends
becaus ewe liked you and now it like, wow this realy suck cuz i realy liked her, also somtimesbecause you consider how long you spent(not in a bad way), like in a video game if you just spent hours but never saved and the dog pulls out the power cable and you just dont wanan play for a few days after
If a guy does that, it means he's shallow and just interested in you for your body. They'll start diverting their attention away from you, and towards other women they think they have a chance with.
Actually in my past relationship, i was greatful my ex was still my friend. We will get jealous of new bf's but that's natural, to we get over it. But some dudes you will realize are just in it for the sex or passion. So they aren't your true friends.
Well most men and were NOT talking about the niceguy just want to get in your britches. Now just being friends puts a hold on that type of activity. The niceguy is friends to all lady's
Yea its hard to swallow but the bottom line is communication and getting to know one another-matey.
Well, to begin you need to understand that there is a HUGE difference between guys and girls.
When a guy enters into a relationship with a girl he likes, it becomes his goal to bring that relationship to the next level. That is what you see in these guys, their attempt to get you to like them more.
When you shoot them down, they loose the modivation that has been driving them to impress you. They feel defeated and devalued. (this is not the case for all guys and doesn't mean you should stay with someone you don't like just because you don't want to hurt their feelings.)
My advise is this: Next time you see a guy (one you wouldn't want to date) start giving you a lot of attention, let them know how you feel. Believe me, as a guy, i would much rather hear that in the begining of a relationship rather than after a few weeks or months.
