Me and this girl are debating. Well not really xD i said it was debating but i doubt she cares. But anyways what she said :
fitting in is disgusting. just try to be yourself, and never lose grasp of who you really are.
I said : What if the real you is not what everyone expected ? What if you are a horrible human being only pretending to be who you are only to backstab you ? What if the only way to be accepted by society is to fake who you are ? Serial murderer, pedophile, rapist, terrorist, devil worshipper, cheater. What do you do then ? Should You still be yourself only... See More to be viewed a monster ? So maybe it is okay to be fit in and never be yourself what if your'e trying to change instead of being that other person ?
She replied : you can change, but for the better. you can change and you still don't have to fit in. there are pieces of personality which makes you you. if you're a sociopath, you still have a huge logical side to you that you can figure out how to use it to your advantage. honestly, that type of changing will take eons to do, but it's only for the best.
But what is influencing this change ?What is influencing your personality change ? Theres ALWAYS somthing you see around you somone who acts a certain way or in your environemt and without realizing you somhow fit in if only slighlty. There's no point in change if you're not trying to fit. Yes your'e changing for the better but i find it impossible to think this change came out of nowhere.
But i feel as if i'm going in a circle or contradicting myself %26gt;.%26lt; Anyone have suggestions lol xD
My response was going to be this :
What is a good comeback ? Personality argument and fitting in.?
Excellent. I agree with you. You can always study personality changes too because there are a million books about it. Good Luck.
